My best friend is too 'OVER' ?

Question

i'm 14 this years & i have 3 called as very close friend,2 of them are girls & the other 1 ish a guy . His name is call Justin. Thing went well at the starting of secondary 1 but after that he started to borrow money from us &other classmate and he didn't pay us back . now we're in secondary 2. same class .his poket money is only $4 .

sometime he used to hang out with us & he dont have enough money to have his lunch with us .. we usually would say that we borrow him money & the next day he MUST return but the next day we looked for him for the money he would say that he dont have enough money to eat if he return us .

For the past few day i got very pissed off with his attitude i scolded him &ask him to return all the money i only want him to return $50 actually its more than what i want him to return .This friday we are having a chalet .I really need the money ..i called him & asked him wether how much he could pay this friday he told me that he would ask his grandmothe see-inq that how much she would give him .i know that his grandmother give him money he would not pay us. what should i do ? should i go straight to his mother for the money ? . but if i do that he would be cane .. i really got no idea.

Answer 1

His mother won't give you the money.  She'll just redirect you to Justin.  It is, after all, not her responsibility.  You could at least bring it to her attention, but I couldn't imagine her doing much.  Force your presence on him and make sure he gets the money when you are around.  Continue to remind him of the importance that you get it back.  And stop lending him money.

Answer 2

ughhhh thats a hard one let him keep his money but make him pay a few dollars a day soon that will make the amount he owes