My best friend kinda treats me like ****.. no idea what to do.?

Question

i have known this person for 2 years and me and this person have heaps in common.

this person is VERY pretty and basically all the guys like her and would do anything for her. sometimes i am the centre of her jokes but i dont really care because we both know that its a joke and sometimes i do the same to her.

recently she got SO pissed off with me because she thought i liked her boyfriend.. i have my own boyfriend and weve been together for 8 months.. she wouldn't talk to me for 2 whole days just completely ignored me! i had done nothing wrong except for some reason i sucked up her *** and said sorry . but i did nothing wrong. by boyfriend who is also very good friends with her said that she was just doing it for attention and .. we are better now except it used to have a thingy about me on her myspace (a good thing) and she took that out and but my other friend in but she took that out. im not in her friends at all. she was talking to my other friend and said that why should it matter because i am hardly on and its just a website.. i dont know what to do..

but most of the time shes nice except she always ditches me for guys and i woud never do that to her.

she told my boyfriend once that i wasnt sure if i still wanted to go out when i just said that to her not to anyone else. and her excuse was he deserves to know because he is the other half of the relationship.

I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT TO DO..

please help

.. sorry its a bit long.

Answer 1

sometimes a friendship has run its course, even best friends don't always last. it sounds like shes all about herself and that shes has to always have some relationship issue wheather shes in one or out of one i bet she is always finding something to worry about too, even the most minut details, i know lots of people like this, my best friend is like this. you have two choices either let her know how you feel and see if she realizes what shes doing or maybe you've had enough and its time to call it quits. there is always someone else out there that you will have heaps in common with.

good luck, i hope you can fix things

Answer 2

hmn...ask her what's her problem.if she tells you the problem..try to work that out if it can't be help..don't get sad. You've done your best to understand her.just be a friend someday she'll realize your worth ( don't get too occupied by her..you still have a life to live..you have your boyfriend and other friends so cheer up )