My best friend left me for a guy...?

Question

My ex best friend stopped being friends with me and a LOT of her close friends for her boyfriend this past school year around christmas time. I've had a really hard time getting into new friend groups since all my friends were her friends too and some of them are still her friends, some of them aren't so its awkward. It hurt me really bad because we were like sisters and I wish it could have been a clean break but I see her everyday because we are both on dance team. Its just a sucky situation. How can I open up to new people and forget her?

Answer 1

If there is absolutely no way that you can try to still ahng with her, try just saying hi to people! It works wonders. My best friend, over here right now actually, started out with a hi! And now look at us! Also, I know it sounds kind of wierd, but, if there was a guy that you had your eye on, then try asking him out. That might get you into both him and his friends will naturally become your friends. Trust me, I was in the same situation. My best freind left me for her bf and now I just have everyone that won't leave me.

Answer 2

go out with a guy with a lot of freinds

and become freinds with them

wen u break up continue to be freinds and ur set

Answer 3

go out with the friends that you do have, show her that you dont need her, you need to learn to be independant, relying on people will only cause u more dissapointment, besides, are you sure u want to be feeling all down and out because of her??? if she was REALLY your bestfriend...she wouldnt have even thought about leaving you for a guy!!! try talking to her, and if she doesnt want to talk to you, atleast you'll know you tried!! good luck!