My best friend since 2nd grades EX likes me and i like him what do i do i dont want to hurt my friend?

Question

HELP i dont want our frindship to end over a stupid boy but i dont want to turn him down

Answer 1

If she's a real friend this definitely will not end your friendship. Make sure you tell her though and don't date him behind her back. Just because things between them didn't work out doesn't mean things between you and her ex won't.

Answer 2

You need to figure out who is more important to you at this point in your life. Is this guy going to be around forever? Your best friend just may be if you don't hurt her.

  Me and my best friends made a pact a long time ago...

"We don't mess with each others boyfriends, husbands, or exes."

As long as you realize there are other boys out there then you and her will be fine.

  Read what you wrote... " a stupid boy". You just answered your own question.

Answer 3

I dont think u can handle both, u have to hurt one, now its upto u to make the choice. But yeah, u can try making your best friend realise that u really like this guy, and u wanna give it a try, but u cant until she consents. And I'm sure she will sacrifice her love for u.