My best friend tells me I can do better than him! (pics)?

Question

My best friend said I can do better than him! (pics)?

I feel really sad. I don't really judge too much on looks. All I ask for is a guy who treats me right and doesn't do me wrong. I just like a guy to be average in looks or better. I'm not shallow.

I went on a date with this guy and he's really nice and gave me butterflies. But my best friend told me "He's so ugly. What are you doing? You can do better."

What should I say to her? It's just quite annoying. I know what she says is stupid, but every time she says it I can't help but wonder "Wait is he really that bad?"

Is he really that bad??? I think he's cute and when he smiles his eyes always get tiny.

http://i90.photobucket.com/albums/k278/krys315/11-4.jpg

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=21584657&albumID=0&imageID=1587893

P.S. If you feel the need to see what I look like, go to my yahoo360 or myspace. I would say I'm average-ish. She tells me I'm way better than him. She's just a little shallow. She admits it.

Answer 1

Why does it matter what your friend thinks, as far as his looks? He is your bf not hers....if you love him then thats all that matters. Tell her that you love him and to please stop saying he is ougly because you don't care what her opinion is only yours....why would you even go that far as to putting his pics on here??  

Answer 2

Tell your friend that this makes you uncomfortable. Let her know that she should not be talking about your man like this. Ask her how'd she'd like it if you told her that her dad was ugly everytime you visited her house. She'd probably feel the same way you feel right now. It always hurst us when people talk negatively about someone we love. If this guy makes you feel butterflies, then there's no reason you need to listen to your so-called "friend". Friends are there for support, not for player-hating!