My best friend told me she loves me... What should i do?

Question

How can i let her down gently... Should i tell her i'm not attracted to females and hope we can still be best friends...?

Answer 1

I think you have to let her know that you're not interested, in that you're straight, but that it will not effect your relationship with one another if you can help it.  She needs your support!

Answer 2

Tell her your boyfriend is not into three somes.

Answer 3

Thats so sweet, I suppose you are sure that she means "love" and not just loves you as a friend ?

If she means it then you can say exactly what you have said on here and she cant take offence.

If you feel awkward with her, it may ruin your friendship, I hope you can work it out.

Answer 4

Did she mean she loves you in that way? My girlfriends and I tell eachother we love eachother all the time, and we're in our twenties! Its like sibling love I guess. Lifes too short not to tell the people you care about that you love them.

Make sure you've got the right end of the stick first. If she does mean shes attracted to you in that way well let her down gently and be supportive, it'll be a confusing time for her, she'll need a friend.

Answer 5

Send her off for some tennis coaching that will keep her busy.

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Answer 6

Yeah.Just say that and then say you still want to be friends though,no hard feelings or something.

Answer 7

it depends on how she said it.........seriously or just like she's leaving your house and you give her a hug and she says" i love you then goes...........there's a difference. but if she was serious  think you should just tell her that you love her too, but not in that way you love her like a sister and you don't want to wreck your relationship thats what i woul do

Answer 8

Oh God, that must be unbearable! Try to stay friends with her, but it will be hard for when she cant resist loving you and hard for you because you know she loves you more than friendship could stand.

If you are teenagers it is important to know that your body may just be exploring sexuality and can be a little mixed up to tell you the truth.  

Answer 9

There is no question of being gentle or harsh. Fly him off and find some boy for love. The philosophy, nature and religion all tells us this, and you know nature is nature; go against it and find yourself in misery and sorrow.

So these are the precautions and you should keep them all in mind before even answering her.

Therefore, answer her "no" aloud.

Thanks.

Answer 10

Absolutely, you answered your own question with the best answer hehe

Answer 11

tell her u don't roll that way..tell her ''Sorry i don't roll that way but if i was i would totally date u'' hahahaha be sure to tell her that she can always talk to u about anything...if she need to..

Good Luck!!!

Answer 12

Well there's nothing else you can do but tell her you like dudes. If it hurts her, it hurts but there's nothing else you can really do.

Unless if you find her a nice girfriend.