My best friends girl friend had s*x with my brother?

Question

I came home to see my brother (45mins ago) and seeing where he was at I went to his room to see if he was asleep and walked in on him and my best friend (been knowing sence i was 2 years old) girl friend having s*x. My mouth dropped now i am stuck in between a rock they begged me not to tell Brandon (my best friend) what was going on the past 3 months, 3 MONTHS this been going on, my brother also said if i was a real brother then I wouldnt tell Brandon and his girl friend begged me to the point where she had tears, telling me not to tell my best friend. Its just not right and I would feel wrong if I ratted on my brother cause we are real close brothers and I love him to death but i love brandon just as much like a brother but I am caught in between a rock like i said and I need to know what to do. Should I tell my best friend or keep it from him and dont rat my brother and my best friends girlfriend out. Thank you guys

P.s My best friend and his girlfriend are getting married in 3 weeks this is crazy.

Answer 1

YOU NEED WISDOM HERE.....

LET YOUR BROTHER KNOW THAT KARMA, WORKS, AND HE SHOULD LET THE GIRL GO FOR EVER AND EVER ELSE YOU WILL NEVER EVEN TRUST HIM WITH YOUR DAUGHTER..

NOW TELL THE GIRL TO GO AND CONFESS TO THE GUY AND YOU ARE GIVING HER THREE DAYS TO DO THAT... ELSE YOU ARE TELLING,...  AND MAKE SURE YOU MAKE A DUMMY PHONE CALL TO YOUR FRIEND AT HER PRESENCE  THAT YOU MET THE GIRL AND SHE HAS SOMTHING TO TELL  HIM..

AFTER THE GIRL CONFESSES, ITS YOUR BROTHERS TURN TO GO APOLOGIZE. THIS IS WISDOM..!

Answer 2

tell ur friend or you will lose a good friend and ur bro would forgive u sooner or later. besides how will ur friend feel if he found out later how will he trust his fiance

Answer 3

well first of all, not a real brother? how is that possible? you were his bro as soon as you popped out of your mom! and she's getting married? well honestly, after watching a whole lot of maury :D you should definitely tell someone. because c'mon he's your best friend and you wouldnt want him to keep something uberly bad like this from you right? and it would be worse if she told him like 5 years from now and he'll think that you knew all along so don't just keep it to yourself or things could end up more awkward than it is right now. hope that helped!

Answer 4

I'd rat. because you have to live with this little secret for the rest of your life and so does your friends girl friend too.

Answer 5

It is better to find out before the marriage than after.

Answer 6

As far as telling on your brother it is a hard position to be in so just tell on her.  Let him know that his girl isn't ready for marriage.  Tell him to keep his eyes open and pay attention to what is going on.  Drop hints and not tell.  Say that you have a feeling that she isn't trust worthy. Get someone else to tell.   Or you could just mind your business but if your friend finds out later that you knew something and didn't inform him, it still will be a problem. If he found out later just act as if you are just as shocked as him. But I would always and continue to let her know she is beneath your best friend and he could do better.  Don't talk about it with your brother at all.  He has to own up to his own wrong.  Someone will do it to him. You always get what you put out there back.

Answer 7

Your friend HAS TO KNOW! I mean, would you like it if your best friend didn't tell you that your girlfriend has been cheating on you for 3 months? That is very wrong what that girl is doing and ESPECIALLY if they're getting married in 3 weeks! You shouldn't let your best friend get married to a girl who has been cheating on him for the past 3 months. She's going to keep doing it too if you don't tell. Once a cheater, always a cheater.

I hope you do the right thing. I know your brother is telling you not to tell, but he shouldn't have been with the girl for the past 3 months! He knew she was taken and they both knew she was getting married. Now they both have to face the consequences. Don't let him scare you just because you guys are brothers. You guys will always love each other and he will always be there for you. Yes, he will be upset with you at first, but he'll get over it and forgive you because you guys are brothers.