My best friends husband is calling his 1st wife. They married four years ago, she is his 3rd wife.?

Question

8 years ago when they were living together he left her for his first wife. She took him back months later when the first wife dumped him. They got married 4 years ago. Last week he dropped a paper and on it was his first wives phone number and address in another state( back of paper was dated less than 3 months ago). Last time when he left my friend he left the state to be with his ex wife. His ex wife dumped him and my friend took him back. She has not even confronted him. I suspect he is up to no good again. I feel sorry for my friend because she loves him, but she needs to stand up for herself. I can't tell her what to do, because she gets mad at me and stops telling me what he is doing, any advice?

Answer 1

Stay out of it. It will only cause you to lose your friend. Just be there for her when she needs you and ultimately when she realizes that you were right about her husband.

Answer 2

Unfortunately sometimes you have to let things be and just be there for her when her marriage crumbles and by the sound of it, it will.

She will be thankful one day that you tried to help her, however she does not want to hear that her husband is no good because she is in denial right now and hurting.

I wish her the best because she has a long painful road ahead of her but she has a great friend like you to help her through it. :)

Answer 3

Yes, my advise is take your bestfriend's 'cue' to you..it's their problem not yours as your bestfriend made it clear to you..

Answer 4

I would consider her being emotionally abused.  Even with domestic abuse, a woman will leave a man and go back after him beating her an average of seven times.  She has to come to the realization of the problem on her own before anyone can help her.  Good luck!

Answer 5

These people are obviously into great drama.  Nothing you can say or do will change that.  Just enjoy the show if you can bear it; if not, stay away.

Answer 6

i would never be with someone who is married 2 times already, thats her mistake...