My bestfriend insists that i am changing everything becuase i have a boyfriend and thinks im replacing her?

Question

so i have a bestfriend that ive known for 9 years but i got back wiht my boyfriend and shes acting like she is better then me now and says i am the one thats is acting diffeerntly i thought she would be happy for me because i fell in love but she just keeps acting liek im replacing her and saying that we arent bff cause we dont hang out all the time now like we used to and ive tried telling her that shes still my bestfriend but now shes all like no i dont even like hanging out wiht you anymore and saying how im not a real friend anymore.

and she keeps talking behind my back about how we arent going to be friedns anylonger i jsut wanna know whats wrong and everytime i try shes just a huge *****.

Answer 1

tell her to suck it up. jealously is stupid.

Answer 2

well 9 years are not easy to just go down the drain.maybe your friend is just jealous beacuse you cant do things that you used to do. it's normal, just tell her that even you have a boyfriend nothing will change in your friendship. maybe sooner if she will have a boyfriend too she will also know .for the meantime try to understand her and explain to her that no matter what happen she will always be your friend.mabe she just need an assurance that you will never change even you alraedy have a boyfriend.

Answer 3

I have been in her seat before and seriously - its not a nice place to be.

You have to understand how she feels because thats whats making her unhappy. Is it that you have stopped spending as much time with her since you got back with your boyfriend? or it could be something as stupid as just you talking about him without realising - that can get seriously annoying.

If you try to reason with her - ask her where the problem started, and how you can fix it... and she still won't budge ijust give her time to cool off.

Remember - you have to find a balance between your friends and your boyfriends...

when this happened to me my mum told the girl that boys come and go, but friends stick around...

3 weeks later my friend had split up with her boyfriend and was crawling back to me to sort her out.

Answer 4

She has to go find other friends and quit depending on you. Right now all she is doing is sulking in the pitty party.

Your friend has to change her attitude if she wants to have any friends.