My bestfriend is so d**n hot!?

Question

Ok I'm a female. My best friends name is jasmine. She is bi sexual or whatever. I know for a fact that she "likes" me cuz we talked about it b4 as a group. She said I was s**y as h**l or whatever but I didn't say anything. I've been having extreme sexual thoughts about her. But I have a boyfriend. I haven't acted on any of these feelings but I really love her. I'm spose to get married soon. Do you think I should persue her or just keep our friendship the way it is? I mean she is so fricken s**y like all heads turn to her. What should I do? (and yes this is real!!!)

Answer 1

Tough one. It could become a problem in your marriage. You better ask yourself if your boyfriend would be ok with it. If you are going to desire women while married, maybe your boyfriend should know what he's getting into.

Answer 2

you should probably include her in a threesome if your boyfriend is ok with it! But yeah just go for it

Answer 3

Truthfully you need to really think about how much you value your friendship with Jasmine. It is great to admire the beauty of a friend but flipping the switch from platonic to romantic could alter or end the friendship forever. Also, is it really fair to just use her as a s*x toy, while you cling to your man as a safety net? No it's not. If you value your friendship and you are really going to get married, keep it platonic. However, if you are going to break off the engagement and give Jasmine a fair shot at having a *real* relationship with you, not some fling, then go for it. What is the rush to get married anyway? Most women do not make an official choice about their sexuality until 21, which is after college. At least if you go to college first, live it up, experiment, and get an education, you get a chance to grow outside of your comfort zone of current family and friends, and learn the truth about who you really are. You are going to change alot between now and 21. The better you know yourself, the better life partner you will be... and growing, just like a seed to a flower, takes time.  

Answer 4

or whatever. 3 way.