My bestfriend likes me but I have a boyfriend.?

Question

So I have a guy friend and he's one of my best friends we had the same classes together last year. And ever since i got text i been we've been texting each other. Then one night he told me he likes me and this other girl and i just thought it was sweet. So i told my boyfriend and he was chill about it.

So yesterday i talked to my bestfriend over webcam and we were just talking about regular stuff. Then last night he started talking about this girl he likes and I thought it was the girl he told me before and he said no. And he kept giving me hints that she's cute and theres no chance that she'll like him in return. And i think that its me. But he wouldn't tell me. And I kind of feel like im starting to have a crush on him but at the same time i love my boyfriend. What should i do?

Answer 1

You love your boyfriend, so you should keep your heart with him. I'm similiar to your friend, since I really love my best (girl) friend, and we both share similiar feelings towards each other. She has a boyfriend, though, and I realize it wouldn't be fair to put her in a difficult situation of who to be with, since I really care about her.

I just think it would be more fair to stay with your boyfriend, as much as it may hurt your friend, let him know that you can't be in love with someone else at the moment, since it will only complicate things.

Hope this helps.