My bestfriend stopped talking to me because her boyfriend hates me.?

Question

well like i was always nice to her boyfriend, i never liked him but i supported her since we were bestfriends. hes always saying how i'm a ***** and she shouldnt talk to me and how i'm trying to break them up because he reads her texts and one was from me saying "he can go to h**l then" because she told me he was yelling at her one night because he thought she cheated on him at some party with his best friend. when she really didnt. so naturally that's what i said to her. now she wont answer my texts and when she does i only really get a one word response. its like he changed her. i dont know what to do

Answer 1

Mama let me tell you something.....i have definetly have gone through what u are going to through right now and recently too. Friends like that are not ur friends at all. It means they are weak and let there man tell them what to do. Trust and beleive her man gonna do some fudge up shy^t and then she gonna go running to you and wen she does u tell her what she is...a weak little girl who would leave her bestfriend for a peice of c**p. because guys who do that are c**p!

Answer 2

This happens to a lot of people... and it is a shame. If you try to change your friend's mind, odds are she will just be more angry with you. You can TRY to sit down with BOTH of them and explain that you'd like to work things out, but there is a good chance they are both stuck in that blissful state of infatuation and they are going to stick with each other, regardless of how good of friends you may have been. Wait it out... she will come to her senses eventually and realise what a good friend she has lost. After all, when she sees what a douche he really is, she will remember who was looking out for her in the first place... YOU!

Answer 3

If she was a real friend she wouldn't do that, she will come round eventually, she will see through this boy eventually, and im sure hes feeding her lies, she will soon fall out of this ''puppy love''

All the best xx

Answer 4

I hate when that happens.

And it happens... a lot.

All I can say is when things like that happen it just goes to show you how strong your friendship was in the first place. If some random guy can break you guys up then you need a better bestfriend.

Because if she can't talk to you NOW.. where is she gonna be when you really need her?

You can't count on her.

Answer 5

I don't know if there is much you can do.  If you try to talk to her about it, she is going to take it the wrong way - at least HE will - and right now, she is into him.  So, though it sucks, you can either live with the one word responses from her, let her go completely until she realizes that what a jerk her boyfriend is, or you can try to talk to her and maybe get through to her.  Maybe try telling her how you feel without placing blame on him...

Sounds like her boy is controlling and she is falling into that.  Which is sad as usually, the only way to get out of that type of relationship is to leave it yourself - hopefully she can see what he is doing to her and she will break up with him and be your best friend again.

Answer 6

Are you on The Hills? and is your name Lauren Conrad?

Answer 7

boyfriends SUCK

Answer 8

Love and hate relationships, the best ones

Answer 9

Ohhk, well what I think  you should do is tell her what you are feeling and how you think that her boyfriend has changed her. Try to get her to talk to you and if that doesnt work then dont wory about her. You have other friends and you can make new friends also. Hopefully one day she will realized how stupid he is and how stupid she acted and appologize. Also, if this is a younger relationship it most likely wont last.

Answer 10

It's frustrating to be with someone who's friends don't like you. Try not to be so biased in the future and that should help.

Answer 11

What the h**l her BF must a be a Dic*

make her dump him set him up so she dumps if hes that bad><

Answer 12

She's playing the victim to you and playing the victim to him. You can't both be "the bad guy" so who is it? If you think he's a jerk and kind of a spas then he is. Just let her not talk to you.. she will see how far he goes with treating her badly and everything else. You can find friends that respect both themselves and their friends. She doesn't respect herself if she lets him treat her that way.

Answer 13

is her name heidi

is your lauren conrad

is his spencer pratt

looks like your famous! :)

call her when hes not with her

Answer 14

Is his name Spencer Pratt?

Do nothing, Make new friends. Your best friend stopped talking to you by choice not force.

Answer 15

It's sad that she is allowing this guy to come between you and your friendship,I would write her a letter and let her know that you value her friendship and that you're not trying to come between her boyfriend,ask her why she hasn't been texting and hanging out with you.Hopefully she will respond in a positive way,but if not as painful as it is you will have to move on ,but hopefully she will come around,and realize that she should not allow a guy break up a friendship.Good luck.

Answer 16

You need to stop saying stuff about or to him. You are probably not the instigator but its better to just ignore him. He's obviously a d**k if he's making his gf choose between her best friend and her bf. She will get sick of him and probably break up with him b/c of the accusations, they will probably continue.

Just be understanding, relationships can be complicated, but this one doesn't sound like its gonna last. A good bf never makes his gf choose between him and her friends.

Maybe talk to her yourself, say that you miss hanging out with her and feel like you two have been getting distant. Tell her that you know that you and her bf have your differences, but say that it shouldnt affect your friendship with her. I'm sure the situation will clear itself up, Chicks before ***** is what I say.  

Answer 17

I agree with Violet! Do nothing.If she is simple minded enough to let her boyfriend controll her that way then sweetie u MUST move on! If u dnt want to just give up on her tho, try 2 sit her down and talk 2 her,send an email or a 4 page letter if she dosent want 2 talk face 2 face,but if she ain tryna hear that dont loose sleep over them...=)...and what is "the hills"?

Answer 18

do this tell ur best friend that he is cussing and swearing to me and if she dosen't talk or anything tell her dose a guy have to ruin are friendship because we are great friends will a man ruin a friened ship

tell her that

Hopes it works out

Answer 19

Explain to your friend that friends will be there for you WAY longer than any boyfriend you will find, especially at this age.  Good friends are hard to come by and they need to be treasured.  If she doesn't come around, I'd say she wasn't a good enough friend to you anyway.