My bf's libido is lower than mine, I've tried alsorts....?

Question

I've tried all kinds of s**y underwear, hot bubbly baths together, walking naked round the house, being seductive, given him special attention, actually telling him I need it....

He just doesn't seem to get the hint. We are both 30 and he does truly love me and at times he is very lustful towards me, just not often enough for me. Do you think this will be a problem long term.. (we have been together 2 years).

Answer 1

to increase his libidio give put him on a herb regimen of Ginseng (GNC's Triple Ginsa works excellent); Yohimbe Bark products - (Black Pearl, Steel Libidio, Advanced Yohimbe Plus);

Answer 2

If you can talk him into shaving, or getting a boyzilian, that will increase his libido a lot.

Answer 3

Maybe that's just how his attitude is, talk to him about it, there may be something you don't know that's keeping him from let's just say performing correctly.  

Answer 4

Has he always been the same? Or has it changed over time?

Not everyone has the same kind of s*x drive as others, though things such as diet, alcohol, smoking, etc can affect things including overall fitness as well sometimes. It could just be his s*x drive is not as high as yours though. In some men it also drops off more in some than others as they get older.

Good to talk to him about it though, communication is always key in any relationship and should be able to talk about just about anything.

Hope you work it all out!

Answer 5

i am your age so this is an "adult" answering you!

tell me is it that you need s*x as in you need to o****m if that is it then you just need to m********e! i personally suggest that you go to adamandeve.com and buy a s*x toy!

but if it is just the closeness you need and its not really about the act of s*x then you need to sit down and talk to him about it! I fully understand if that is it!

Answer 6

There are few perfect matches in this world and there may be little you can do to alter the level of his libido. You need to discuss your concerns with him and you may have to accept the way things are or part, depending on how much of a problem you find this, as the situation may not change and may even become more marked as you age.

Answer 7

Try me!

Answer 8

the only thing about his libido is as he gets older it will get less so make your own mind up about probably living without s*x

Answer 9

It would be highly rare if you could find a man on planet earth who could keep up with a woman 30 years old if she has a high libido. Between 30 & 40 a lot of women are in their prime sexually and men just aren't built in such a way to keep up with them. It's rare when you find  a man who can stay hard for 2 or 3 orgasms and highly rare if he can go 4 or 5 times but I've known a few men who could actually stay hard and go 7 or 8 times during one session. You bf is probably in the average category and I doubt if you or he can do much to change that. IMO it appears to be mostly genetic. But just keep in mind, love and s*x are entirely two different and separate things for a man.

Answer 10

yaaa what are u thinking yes it will know s*x no fun

Answer 11

It could just be a low in the relationship.

When i was with my ex, it was near our two year and the s*x drive just dropped for me, not sure why, but before it was like everytime we saw each other.

Answer 12

nahh,

he will get over it

do not fret young childdd

:)

♥

- Rianna™

Answer 13

no,,,try me.......

maybe theres some thing wrong with his balls or p********

u should ask him and talk bout it seriously because you two are in the relationship...

Answer 14

The SAD diet (standard American diet) causes most of these problems.  Soy products, especially tofu that was designed originally to lower the libido in monks.  Low fat diets and eating the wrong fats like fried foods, hydrogenated oils, vegetable oils, etc. is a big contributor.  

Eating a diet high in carbs, especially those that contain any sugar, diet drinks, energy drinks all contribute heavily to this problem.  When a person eats lots of low density carbs, the body is not designed to handle that.  Most of the pregnenalone precursor goes to making cortisol, the stress hormone, leaving little to none to make the steroid hormones (s*x hormones).  Get the book, "Life Without Bread" by Christian Allan, Ph.D. and read it.  You will gain some good knowledge about carbs and this will help you greatly.

Next, eliminate ALL bad oils.  Do the following:

For cooking, make this mixture and use it only:  1/3 Olive oil (purchased in a can and imported from Italy -- do not get any made in the U.S. because it contains canola oil), 1/3 Sesame Oil (make sure it is organic and cold pressed), 1/3 Coconut Oil (make sure it is extra virgin, cold pressed and organic).

Mix all three of these oils together to make the mixture.  You may have to heat the coconut oil to make it liquid, but don't heat it too much, just enough to make it liquid.

For salad dressings, you can use olive oil and balsamic vinegar or use the mixture above and combine it with balsamic vinegar and add some herbs.

Also, seek out a Certified Nutritional Therapist that can test him for any deficiencies and they will recommend some specific diets.  This will really help him & you.

good luck to you