My bf always want me to look like a beauty pagent type of girl... he wants me to change how i look ....?

Question

he wants me to change//// should i ? should i change for him ... he always says something abt the way i look and the way i do things ...

Answer 1

Don't ever, ever, ever, ever everrrrr change for a guy. If he can't accept the way you look now, he never will.

You look the way YOU want to look, the way you feel best dressed, most comfortable and confident in.

Answer 2

dump his sorry self....change for no one

Answer 3

Don't change for anyone if you don't won't to then don't and make sure you tell him your not going to change and if he doesn't like it he should find someone else to change. because you can do better.

Answer 4

No!!! Don't make a major change for a boy! It's one of the most common mistakes that any girl can make. For example, let's say you have very long hair and your bf wants you to cut it all off. Should you? Unless you want to, don't do it. Plus if you two break up, then you'll end up looking like someone that you aren't. If it's a little change, like you should wear less eyeliner, you can give it a try. If you like that look, stick to it. If not, keep your look!

Answer 5

Tell him that this is the way you are , and if he doesn't like it then he can leave. You don't change for anyone but yourself!

Answer 6

if a guy truly cares about you, he'd accept you the way you are, not try to mold you into his idea of perfection. it's okay to alter some things about yourself to make your significant other happy, but the way you're talking about this guy, it seems like he really wants you to change. and it doesn't seem like you're too eager to change. i suggest you tell him no, you're not comfortable looking that way or doing anything else he tells you to do that makes you uncomfortable, for that matter. and if he has a problem with that, move on and forget him.

Answer 7

no. be yourself. thats who he should like you for.

Answer 8

never change for a guy. a guy that dont like you for what you are, isn't worth it.

Answer 9

People naturally change or evolve over time.

That being said, nobody has the right to ask or force you to change who you are.  Your boyfriend should like or love you for who you are.  If he's trying to change everything about you - your clothes/style, your hair, your makeup, the way you speak or laugh, etc, then he does not really love you for who you are.

It's one thing if he's asking you to not wear a particular piece of clothing or shade of lipstick (perhaps it's more revealing than he is comfortable with or is a bad shade for you).  But if he is asking you to change everything about yourself for him, then there is only one thing you need to change:   your relationship status.

If he doesn't like you for who you are - including your quirks and flaws then he doesn't deserve to be dating you.  

Talk to him about how it makes you feel - and tell him that you aren't going to change for him.  Ask him how he would feel if you wanted to change everything about him.  Try to make him see things from your perspective, but also try to see things from his.  Why is he asking you to change?  You didn't give much detail about what exactly he wants you to change, so it's a bit hard to give you more detailed advice.

Basically, if he won't back down on wanting you to change, then you need to figure out why you are with someone who doesn't like you just the way you are.

Answer 10

Don't. If he liked you that much, then he would love you the way you are.

Don't change for him - he should accept you the way you are.

Answer 11

Never change for someone. Gosh, tell him to take it or leave it. If someone wants you to change for them, that means that they don't like the way you are, and thats just plain rude.

It's like changing your whole style and personality. If you are not satisfied in how you look, i doubt anyone else will but him.

Sorry to break it to you so hard