My bf called me by his ex's name and said it's no big deal, I think it was, do you agree?

Question

We had a nice eveining and went to bed for s*x, as he came he called me by his ex's name and this upset me but he said it was just one of those things!

Answer 1

He slipped. Give him a break.

Answer 2

if my gf calls me by another name even when she's sleeping -- she's fired. I don't care if she calls me daddy. That'll teach him though. Always call them "baby". I rarely say the girl's name even in conversation with her.

Answer 3

that is kinda weird.i mean when i have my daughter for the day,she has a habit of calling me mommy once in a while.but that's because she is around her mother more than me.so maybe he has been around her a lot lately.be suspicious.

Answer 4

yeah that would p**s me right off.

i think if my bf done that to me he would be in the dog house for quite a while lol

just be cautious as he might sill be around his ex

or it could be a genuine mistake

good luck

Answer 5

some people call there g.f/b.f annother name during s*x just to add something to it make it a bit dififferent you call him annother name see what he dose about that but dont worry about it

Answer 6

I don't think it's a big deal, we all make mistakes.  

Answer 7

u start calling him with ur ex's name...........

Answer 8

next time shout ur ex's name to see what his response is then u'll see if he really believes its no big deal... I'm afraid to say this but some men do imagine having s*x with other women, while they sleep with you...

Answer 9

this is no big deal i split from my ex 11 years ago and when we argue i call my boyfriend by my exs name ( probably because all we did was argue!) and my mother in law calls me my exs new partners name, just one of those things when someone is with some one for a while your brain just takes a little while retraining....... in my case a long time!!! (11 yrs! lol)

Answer 10

I think it is just one of those things, my mum called my step dad my dads name at the begging of their relationship, so dont worry about it, it's not nice being called another ladies name but at the end of the day he's with you isnt he:) so dont worry be happy:)

Daisy x

Answer 11

no way....get rid of him! seriously i went out with a guy who had a similar name to my ex and once i called him by the wrong name......but we were not in bed we were just having a conversation....it was entirley innocent. In the context of the bedroom its completley off and wrong....and i would be concerned about this. Its really up to you if you let this go or not but i def could not forget about something like this and the fact that he is being so flippant and casual about it shows a lack of respect for your emotions....i know what i would do but its your choice

Answer 12

If he does it again, talk to him. These are not very good signals, he should be more careful

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Answer 13

maybe in the heat of the moment he sed his girlfriends name because you wer going on at him about her? i have done it myself  need i say i felt like a t*t afterwards lol let him off its only a name!! not asif he was making love to you and said it

Answer 14

OF COURSE it upset you. i would be upset too. but it is prob something tht can not be a big deal to him. i'd let it go the once. if it becomes a pattern--then thats a probem,.

Answer 15

yeah it's just one of those things....

when you're still banging your ex girlfriend it's quite common to s***w up and call your current girlfriend by your ex's name..  happens all the time!

Answer 16

don't take this too seriously, when a guy c*ms he can lose all sense of reality so if it is just a one-off try to forget it

Answer 17

erm no its not one of those things he must have been thinking about his ex  who knows what goes off inside the mind of a man lol

Answer 18

i would be fuming but if you really like him shrug it off. or during s*x you can say the name of your ex and see how he likes it! and if he doesnt react then it really is just one of those things but if he reacts then maybe feelings for his ex are still around!

Answer 19

she's on his mind in order to call his anme be suspicious ive often nearly said my ex's name,bcos shes on my mind