My bf cheated on another woman?

Question

12 years of relationship we had the first time we met he promise to marry me then we had a 8 year old son now,then he left me because of his new girl, it hurt so much,how can i forget this situation,i want to move on everything want to forget?

Answer 1

get over it.

Answer 2

i think you should not forget this. retain this memory and this feeling and let it motivate you not to only show how successful and happy you can be without him but you can find a man better than him. also it helps you scrutinize your next boyfriend because of this event.

Answer 3

wait a minute, you was dating someone while they were in a relationship and he left you for the same reason and you want to forget about the situation and y'all have a son together. you will never forget it b/c you are going to see his face every time you look at your son. what goes around comes back on around.find another man and make sure he is not involved with someone else.

Answer 4

find someone else or just occupy your mind with other things as much as possible

Answer 5

You just need to realize that he was a douche and to forget you should go out with some of your friends often and hopefully find someone better than him.

Answer 6

1 Corinthians 6:18

Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body.

Answer 7

Learn to become your own best lover and love yourself. Also, transfer that love to your son as the best parent you can be, and don't get yourself down by thinking that your son needs a father. He needs you, and right now, that is all he needs. You should not go out looking for a father figure for him until you are truly ready to move on. First, you must learn to take care of yourself. Do something like keep a journal or do yoga to help you.  

Answer 8

see what happens when u have a kid at 16 ..grow-up

Answer 9

If you want to move on, then move on.  The fact you are asking about the situation tells me you are spending time thinking about him.  Get out, meet some new people and let things go where they go.  

Answer 10

time, just give yourself time

Answer 11

If you forgive he will most likely do it again, i suggest you move on with someone else.

Just mourn him in someone else's arms.

Answer 12

It will take time to get better. For now, keep yourself busy with work or other projects, have friends to support you, exercise. Forgetting would be difficult too.

Answer 13

Sounds like its time to move on its hard but over time the pain goes away