My bf doesnt like to cuddle. Does that mean he's not interested in me? we just started dating?

Question

he told me he doesnt like cuddling.

Answer 1

Maybe he just doesn't like cuddling in general. Don't take it personally.

Answer 2

JUST GIVE IT TIME.. AND GET TO KNOW HIM AND MAYBE EVEN ASK HIM WHY HE DOESN'T LIKE IT

Answer 3

UMM HUN THAT MEANS HE DONT LIKE YOU AND HE FINDS YOU UNATTRACTIVE AND ONLY WANTS TO USE YOU FOR s*x! SORRY TO SAY BUT ITS THE TRUTH..MAYBE YOU SHOULD GET PLASTIC SURGERY!

Answer 4

Some men just don't like to cuddle. Mine doesn't, but everything else is good. I don't force him and won't.

I don't like people way up in my face so I understand how he feels. I see couples out a lot and they are talking in each others face so close it's crazy to me. I need space, back off a little.

Answer 5

If he told you he doesn't like cuddling then he doesn't. Do you have any reason to not trust him? Not everyone likes the same things.

Answer 6

Maybe he is shy. Everyone likes to cuddle.

Answer 7

Maybe that's just him and his preferences. I'm a woman who doesn't like to receive flowers, unlike the stereotype that says all women love receiving flowers.

He's dating you, so obviously he's interested in you?

OR, maybe he doesn't want to look too soft at first.and will cuddle up to you once things get comfortable. People talk about girls not liking softies and preferring bad boys.

EDIT: I agree with oddball...I've seen deceptive guys cuddle too much just to impress the girl and get in her pants.

Answer 8

shut up anatol, this is a place where people pose questions in the hopes that they will get helpful answers.

Answer 9

well it depends. it's hard to tell starting out.  but if it continues i would begin to question his real motivations.  if cuddling is important to you and he never loosens up about it, well, that is something to consider as a factor in whether or not you should stay with this person.  if it's no big deal to you (which i doubt, since you asked this question), then leave it.  consider if it's insecurity making you need him to cuddle with you - and where is this insecurity coming from?  is he cold or distant in other ways?  or is it just that he doesn't cuddle?  this could be a complicated issue!

Answer 10

Some guys just don't like to cuddle. It's not because of you or anything you've done or not done. Some people (women too!) are like that.

He may have issues with his personal boundaries (he may not like other people being to close to him physically).

EDIT: Don't listen to LOL, she's just being shallow, presumptuous, and assuming. That's not how you should see your situation.

And, besides, if he was "just using you for s*x", wouldn't he be cuddling you constantly?

Answer 11

Just because he doesn't like to cuddle, does not mean he not interested in you. Maybe he is not comfortable enough yet with you to cuddle. Then again, some people just cannot stand to cuddle because it interferes with their personal space.