My bf in the army is not returning love you text???

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My bf in the army is not returning love you text???

my boyfriend is in the army. we have been together over a yr and i have not seen in 2 months. he is in training and gets nights and weekends off. he calls me at 9:00 every night when he is not in the field. usually when I send him a text message saying i love you, he sends it back to me or vice versa. the last months he has not sent any text. is this something to be concerned about??? or I am I reading too much into this?

Just want your opinion. personal is appreciated

thanks

my boyfriend is in the army. we have been together over a yr and i have not seen in 2 months. he is in training and gets nights and weekends off. he calls me at 9:00 every night when he is not in the field. usually when I send him a text message saying i love you, he sends it back at me or vice versa. the last months he has not sent any text. is this something to be concerned about??? or I am I reading too much into this?

Just want your opinion. personal is appreciated

thanks

Answer 1

Just relax!!! Maybe he is busy right now.

Answer 2

Quit being such a chick and let the poor guy do his job.  

Answer 3

I thought you couldn't have a cell phone in training?! My bf just left for Infantry training this week. I know they can't have cells...and why would u want a cell with you...they have sooo much to learn and do. When they come home, you'll get your time with them.

Answer 4

same thing happens to me... i get a bit upset sometimes because some of the texts that he doesn't answer have some things that i would really like his thoughts on.  I always try to tell myself that when he does have time he answers every last one of my messages so if he doesn't answer that means he must not have time.  I keep messaging him because just because he's busy doesn't mean that he doesn't want to hear from me so i keep him informed about what is going on even if he is incapable of answering at the moment.  I randomly send "i love you" messages too just so he knows.  :) and he does the same.  Just remember all the things that he has told you, that he has said that he loves you.  

Answer 5

Honey if this is upsetting you, you are in for a rough road. My husband is in Iraq for the 2nd time and I have not seen him since January. I am lucky if he calls me once every two weeks! Men in the Army are busy, I know it is hard, boy do I ever know where you are coming from. Be secure in your relationship. If he plans on staying in the army and you plan on staying with him, you have to expect these things. He will call when he can, trust me, he is always thinkin about you.

Answer 6

No offense, actually take offense if you want. You seem very clingy people are shooting at him yet its you who need to relax, don't u think there is a lot out their he needs to worry about besides your text message.

Answer 7

I was dating someone in the military at one time too. He stopped emailing me. And I was heart broken. I believe they are not allowed to her cell phones though. So he might have gotten it taken away. And I know how you feel. Does he send you any text at all? Maybe he is just not receiving your texts?

Answer 8

I think if he is still calling that is a good sign. Depending on how busy he is may have something to do with why he is not  responding to your text. These guys are under a lot of pressure. Just be there for him. Keep sending messages so he knows that you care and are there for him. Try not to read into it. Remember he is in the army… you will always come second. It sucks, I KNOW.  

Answer 9

He is busy learn how to stay alive in battle. Put your big girl panties on and leave him alone. He'll get back to you.

Answer 10

I wouldn't worry, as long as he is still calling you.  You can ask him about it, but I would guess that he is just busy.  He may not want to have his phone with him all the time, or it may not be appropriate for him to answer all the time.  I think you are reading too much into it.  

Good luck.

Answer 11

You might be reading into it to much or, as much as you don't wanna hear it, the military changes some guys, they're not as, affectionate as before, not as loving per-say, not to offend, but you really need to not get upset over every little thing that strikes you wrong, and need to be a little stronger, as long as he's still calling you saying he loves you, just be happy with that. Being with a service man is hard as h**l, and you need to be strong to deal with it.

Answer 12

Does he still call you though?