My bf is getting weirder and weirder?

Question

he is a nice person but I know he is protective of me, he has a reason too. I get a lot of attention from guys and weird ones more lately and we are in college and he said he is worried about me. Because he thinks I may be talking to some other guy in one of my classes or something.

I don't know why? We have been together for a year now there should be some more security but he told me he's more stressed with the start of school and it's had him acting different.

Like saying rude comments out of the blue and stuff. I'm going to talk to him again. I want to help him that way he can trust me more. I am a good girlfriend.

what do you think?

Answer 1

when you talk to him you should give him the feeling that he can trust you and he doesnt have to protect you a lot. even though its really nice to have protection from your boyfiend but like he said, hes more stressed since its the start of school and all that.

so talking is the best idea. hope its all sorted out.

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Answer 2

well i think that he has some right of protection, if guys flirt. but he shouldt be tooo overboard. and tell him he soulsdnt say rude comments

Answer 3

you should tell him that he should trust you a little more then that cause if that was me i wouldn't let a guy think of me in that way

Answer 4

i think it's not worth the stress, get out while you can, his healousy HIS problem. have another talk w/ him but if nothing changes how many more talks do you want to have? mive on. you have no kids w/ him and owe him nothing,  

Answer 5

I think the change in setting (college) is making him nervous and he is insecure about himself with what he sees as competition. He is probably worried that you will find somebody better than him and then leave him for that guy. I think you just need to keep reassuring him that he's the one and there's nothing to worry about. Maybe do something extra special one day just to reinforce your relationship. An extra romantic date or maybe something he has always wanted to do. If he gets crazy/violent over it (which i sure hope not but it happens) leave immediately and get help though. Good luck!

Answer 6

if you did nothing wrong why is he doubting you? he seems a little too overprotective to me.