My bf is in love with himself!?

Question

Things have really cooled down with my bf. He stood me up this week. When I asked me why, he said he was having dinner with someone else. I asked him if it was another girl. He said no. I got worried and asked if he had dinner with a guy. He said no. “I was having dinner with myself,” he said. I asked him why he was having dinner by himself instead of with me, and he said it was because he liked himself more than he did me. When I got mad, he said quickly that he still loved me, but the love he had for himself and me was different. Then he said that…he was in love with himself.

“I’m narcissistic” he said. “I can’t see you anymore because I would be cheating on myself.” I didn’t believe him because I never heard of the word before. He said it’s as legit as being g*y or bi. So I looked it up in the dictionary, and he was right! Today I looked in his window, and saw him having a nice romantic dinner with the mirror. He looks happy, and says that as soon as narcissists get their rights, he will marry himself. Should I let him go? I love him a whole lot.

Answer 1

I feel really bad for you right now, but the best thing is to just let him go. I'm sorry to say that there is only so much you can change with a person, and from your description I really don't think you could change him. There are plenty of fish in the sea, so go find someone nice. Put it this way if you did chase after him you would most likely end up with  one-sided love for him and, so waste most of your life wishing he'll change. He won't, most likely so just leave him be, it will be hard but chin up chick you can do it oxo Niki :)