My bf is not into phone s*x?

Question

We're apart for the summer, and I think a good way to still be intimate is to have phone s*x but he doesn't want to do it. He doesn't give me a clear reason though. Guys, help me out here...what could be the reason? thanks

Answer 1

maybe he thinks it's wierd. like making noises and touching yourself on the phone...ya if you think about it it is kinda wierd.

just accept what he says cuz there doesn't have to be a reason if he doesn't want to do it. he might be scared or embarassed.

respect his privacy

Answer 2

He probably feels awkward touching himself....masturbation is more of a private thing so he probably has a mental block about doing it when his girlfriend is on the phone.  Usually it's the guys that wanna do it and the girls that are shy....weird lol.  Keep begging!  He's gotta give in! =]

Answer 3

my ex boyfriend wasnt into it. he felt uncomfortable with the idea. he said that he'd rather be intimate in person rather than over the phone. well that and he got jealous of my toys.

Answer 4

Well, it may be a little awkward. I mean, phone s*x. It even sounds weird. Just call him and try to hook up. (By hook up I don't mean make out, I mean get together and do something)

Answer 5

Honestly?  I think phone s*x is retarded and I'll never do it.  Talking dirty over a phone doesn't get me off and it might be the same with him.

Answer 6

He's just not into that type of thing. I'm not either. Don't push him and just get over it.

Answer 7

ur weird....i understand ur bf reason to not have phone s*x

Answer 8

Maybe it's because it's tacky?

Answer 9

probably just become he doenst feel like it fills his actualy needs... you are still far away and he is still left j****** off

Answer 10

Don't do it! He'll probably record it and play it to his friends

Answer 11

He's obviously not into it. Maybe he feels a little silly for having "s*x" on the phone. Ask him, no one on here can tell you why he's doing what he's doing.

Answer 12

Guys maybe don't like phone s*x because i think guys like really having s*x. Or, he's just tired or something. Maybe he met another girl

Answer 13

I suppose some people would  be comfortable doing it but then others would feel uncomfortable, like me i would feel like people were listening or something, dont get mad at him for it, its just something he isnt comfortable doing and its hard for him to explain why he doesnt wanna :)

Answer 14

because unlike you he has enough dignity and pride to know that talking dirty on a phone is disgusting and only horny people would ever do that

Answer 15

he may think your S****y?

Answer 16

Well, just say would you rather have the real thing and if so then i could get pregnant :S