My bf is suicidal, and i don't know what to do to tell him that he shouln't?

Question

he has probs with his mom, and there is nothign i can tell hm that he doesnt have a reply for....

kinda desperate

Answer 1

yeah gonna have to say it isnt worth u being there for him if nothing u do or say helps ur only gonna hurt yourself with this  

Answer 2

Tell everyone, his parents, your parents, your doctor, teachers etc  I hope you can save him but if not you must remember it is his stupid choice and not your fault, you are already trying to help.  Good luck

Answer 3

Death is final, as long as there is life, there is hope.

Of course, you should bail like a rat leaving a sinking ship! This loser will only bring you down with him.

Answer 4

how about that it hurt you and you would miss him.  

Answer 5

He has problems that you aren't able to solve, and it sounds like he doesn't want to hear your opinion either.  It's hard to believe your mom could drive you to suicide, but it does happen.  The main thing is, that you figure out if this is a "cry for help" or a means to seek attention and have you feel sorry for him.  

If you believe that he is really considering this then he needs to call a suicide help line and talk to someone who can help him.  He needs some type of counseling to help him through the "rough patch".  You need to let him know that if he is serious enough to go through with this, or if he values your relationship at all, then he needs to do this.  Not for you, for him.

But if you think this is a play on emotions, you need to address that.  I seriously think it is, because believe me, if he was serious enough about it, he would have DONE IT.  SO tell him to stop being such a baby and that suicide is not something to even joke about.  

My uncle was a cry for help and no one recognized it.  He succeeded in what he set out to do. And you know what?  He left behind an ENTIRE family who really doted on him and loved him.  He also left behind a 5 year old son, who is now 19 years old.  You think if someone would have taken it seriously that boy would have a father now?  Who's to say, but I know we all would feel a lot better if we could go back in time and stop him.

Answer 6

tell him not to scream when he kills himself, we don't want him to frighten the house pets, also could he please kill himself away from our property as we don't want the inconvenience and mess of his untimely demise to lower the value of our property, or ask dumb *** if you can record his death for later screening on tv and use the royalty cheque to buy some cool stuff.   In other words your 'boyfriend' has a unique way of demonstrating his love for you. You seem like a bright and intelligent person, you should get rid of him otherwise you could go down the plughole with him.

Answer 7

All you can do is acknowledge his fears  and anxiety. You can't talk him out of being upset by his mother. He has to work it through.  You can tell him to call you if he needs to talk, and before he takes any action to PROMISE call you. That will probably stop him from doing anything too impulsive.