My bf is totally my opposite...will it work?

Question

my bf and i love each other but the more i get to know him the more we r opposites:

he has had multiple s*x partners in the past, and i am a virgin and only want s*x after marriage...its kind of uncomfortable knowing he has had s*x b4 me

he is not that much of a person that likes loud ppl, amd my friends r loud, i am only loud when i am with them

and the most annoying one is that he says other girls r pretty in front of me, when i am there (it annoys me to the core!)...

we r long distance, he we will see each other several times a yr, but i just want to know if it will work out, i love him dearly though

Answer 1

Alot of the time opposites attract. If you two were the exact same then things would be almost boring. As for his multiple s*x partners, if you want to wait until marriage and he is long distance, how do u know he isn't fooling around on you to get the pleasure he wants since you're not giving it to him? But don't change you're abstinece just because of him. He sounds like not a good boyfriend to me. If you like loud friends and having a good time then dont be scared to be yourself around him. and if he doesn't like that then he isn't worth it. He should like you for you! As for him saying other girls are pretty while you're around, if you feel uncomfortable then tell him to stop. But alot of guys do that, but you're the one hes standing with, not the "pretty" girl. remember that.

Answer 2

my bf and i are opposites and we have been together for 2 years know there will be ups and downs because of the difrences i promise u that but i promise u that u will never get bored there will always be something new because the other person will surprise u like wow omg and yeah