My bf means everything 2 me, but hes moving away..!!?

Question

im16. me and my bf have been dating for a year. we really care about each other. he means everything 2 me. i love him.

the other day, he just found out that hes moving in december. on my b-day.

he really doesnt want 2 move, and he doesnt want 2 leave me, but he doesnt have a choice...

we would still c each other every month.

i would wait 4 him.

should i wait and stay with him??

i really want 2 bu im not sure iff i should....!!

Answer 1

You're only going to see each other once a month and that's not enough. You will both start getting into your lives without each other. Not at first but slowly you will. You will get busy with other things and then start missing the once a month meetings. So If he is moving then you will have to face that your relationship has an expiration date but unlike others you now when it is. Talk about when you want to end it. Now or later. Whatever is easiest for everyone.  

Answer 2

Only you and your boyfriend can decide. Sit down and talk it out with him. If you both really car about each other and want to try out a long distance relationship, then go for it. They do work out if you work hard enough at them. But if neither of you want to try a long distance, than so be it...try being friends instead.

The best thing you could do is talk to your boyfriend about it because the only opinions that matter are yours and his.

Best of luck :)

Answer 3

nice, maybe you could move with :D

good luck

regards,