My bf says condoms chafe his uncut p***s to the point where he wont wear them. What can we do?

Question

He's been with other girls and says that they chafe to the point where the pain is excruciating. Other guys who are uncut do not complain of this. Could it be a latex allergy, improper usage (not putting it on right,) or just a ploy to just not have to wear one??? If this is true would female condoms solve the problem or create the same effect?

Answer 1

I'm uncut and don't have that problem. Most guys in countries other than the US are uncut and they use condoms just fine. I think he's just using that as an excuse not to wear one. He MIGHT be allergic, but other than that, "chaffing" is not due to condom usage unless you are using it wrong.  

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Either:

a) Your boyfriend is a jerk and he's trying to use an excuse so he doesn't have to wear one.

or

b) He is a little too big for regular sized condoms and needs an upgrade (this is usually due to thickness, not length).

Answer 4

that;s a good one, haven't heard it yet, just tell him that there will be no s*x without the condom and that he'll have to wait until his p***s has recovered before you can engage in any sexual behavior again,  see how long it takes for it to get better

Answer 5

then dont have s*x with him. maybe hes got them on wrong

Answer 6

Your boyfriend is pulling your leg because he does not want to use one. If I were you (and unless you want a child) I would refuse to have s*x with him unless he wore one. They help prevent the spread of STD's and serve as birth control. You would be crazy to have unprotected s*x with him. He doesn't sound like the kind of guy who would stick around but it's your call.

Female condoms create the same effect.

Answer 7

i bet its prolly like you said, a ploy to not have to wear one. a female condom would probably solve the issue, but i would recommend also using a spermacide or something because the question is what if the female condom breaks.

Answer 8

good choices it seems that he wants you to take care of "it" but to remember that unprotected s*x can lead to Studs or an unplanned child which leads to other issues so you will have to make the choice but try what works for you and don't be way too concern about his needs.

Answer 9

well you can take birth control or tell your boyfriend if you wants to have s*x with you he needs to grow some and wear a condom UNLESS you want a child...

or maybe he has p***s acne and that's why it hurts

Answer 10

have s*x with you on top

Answer 11

This is a real scummy bf, what a cheap ploy to get you to do it without STD and pregnancy protection.  There is nothing about being uncut that would interfere with using a condom.  Uncut men use them all the time, you should reconsider this guy as a bf.