My bff& i made a pact and i just want others opinions on it?

Question

yeah i just made this account because im pretty sure my mom reads my other account. and i really wanted to ask this question but obviously its too risky on my real account.

so my best friend(who lives in another state) made this pact that by the time we go to camp next year, we're going to have had s*x. anddd i know its stupid, but we both we're gonna have s*x this year anyway. and this way neither of us will back out.

and obvo i will be on birth control and use condoms and blah blah blah...but really my question is it better to do it with a random guy or like, a bf your first time? and if it was a random guy i wouldnt have a boyfriend of course, but idk.

because im actually thinking i would rather do it with my friends friend who goes to another high school, so that way the first time when itll hurt and im bad at it and everything itll be with a guy i dont know. and then i can actually have good s*x with a guy i actually like when i want to.

which would bebetter formy first time?

Answer 1

whateverrrr floats your boat!

haha but personally i wouldnt reccommend it...

Answer 2

All I can say is wow.

What is this day and age coming to? Are we raising idiots or what?

Answer 3

thats not smart because if u do it with a random guy u dnt no how they r if theyll kill u or wat wat if they have a disease or sumthing ull get it FROM them

Answer 4

w***e no offense

Answer 5

wait for a person you like not a random person. having s*x with a random person is just stupid.

Answer 6

To do it when you are ready with someone you really care about. It is a HORRIBLE idea to make a pact to have s*x. It is something that you will never forget and it should be special. I swear you will regret doing this for the wrong reason. s*x changes your life forever, it changes the way you look at everything. (I say this because I know I have had s*x, and while I did have s*x at a very young age, my first time was also with someone who was very dear to me.)

Having s*x as part of a dare or a pact is an awful idea. I promise you that just because you lose it to some guy does not mean that the next time you have s*x you will be good at it.  It takes time to be comfortable with it and to find yourself sexually, and the best way to do that is to find someone you love and who cares about your feelings, your health, and your safety and you can be completely at ease with that person and explore yourself in a caring environment. I can not warn you enough against doing this.

I strongly suggest calling this number and talking to Dr. Drew, it's a radio show on at night called love line, and he gives great advice. 1800-919-LOVE (5683)

Answer 7

thats pretty d**n stupid...

Answer 8

Oh, dear God.  This makes me cry.  To think that you're going to throw away such a gift of intimacy, love and caring on some guy who is just counting cherries and won't remember your name two months later. . . is sickening.  

Your first time should be extraordinarily special, and because you have such a close and intimate relationship with a boy that you love, respect and trust -- not because you're trying to "have s*x" with about the same importance as you'd give a haircut. (h**l, you'd probably be MORE concerned about a haircut.)

Your BFF and you made a STUPID pact, and if you go through with it, you WILL be sorry.

Answer 9

Um wait until you have a boyfriend...and to tell you the truth if you want 2 do it now do it with your best friend....but its best if you don't at all until your older and wiser....

Answer 10

Do NOT go through with this pact, it is an extreamly stupid idea. Believe me, the first time having s*x is not great at all. It HURTS alot, and you bleed. If he's not careful, and being that he doesn't know how he wouldn't, he could rupture something inside of you, like my friend. She was sent to the hospital because her boyfriend wasn't careful. It is nothing great at all, it is a c**k thrusting in and out of you and it hurts alot the first few times, and if it is a complete stranger...do not do it. Wouldn't you rather wait until your older, to think things out?

And from my experience, s*x with girls feels 10 times better then s*x with guys, and there is no risks. Have s*x with your friend if you are so s*x deprived, as you claim.

Answer 11

Im sorry but,that is sick and desperate of you girls.

Answer 12

Well im only a teen...im 15 turning 16..and that's the most stupidest pack I ever heard...not trying to b mean. But c'mon yuh should save it for at boyfriend you r with for at least 2 yrs..but if I had to chose umm duh a boyfriend

Answer 13

oh wow.. that is insane! but i would have to say wait till you have a boyfriend..cause some random guy would be gross..what if u get pregnant? that guy would mos def just take off. I would say atleast wait to have a boyfriend

Answer 14

WTF???

well thanks for making me feel sane today.

btw: dont report this. my answer was "wtf"

Answer 15

i think it would be better if you do it with your bestfriend rather that doing it with a stranger, at least that way you can tell him things during s*x that you can't tell to a stranger, although personally i hoped you do it with a boyfriend of yours rather than just a friend, or much better wait till you get married.

Answer 16

Are you really that stupid?