My birthday just ended?

Question

My birthday just ended and I am upset because my b/f didn't buy a gift/flowers/ card or anything. In fact he told me that if I hadn't said anything he would have not even remember anything about it except it was in July. "It's just another day to me"! We have been together for 3 yrs. We both had to work today but even the folks at work bought me a cake, I received numerous phone calls from friends, so that makes me feel better. Just your opinion please?! I do feel hurt as his birthdat is something I try to make special!

Answer 1

I can say many things, but the bottom line is that HE SHOULD HAVE REMEMBERED!! He should definitely remember the day you were brought into this world!!

Answer 2

are you kidding me! the first comment to this question.. your heartless it is not a guy thing and she does not have to suck it up!!! the fact that you have been together 3 years and he doesnt' remember your bday! that was messed up and you have every right to feel hurt

Answer 3

Most guys are bad at remembering birthdays, anniversaries, etc. It is not personal, it's a "guy thing". Suck it up.

Answer 4

Love him anyway...I'm that way too...but I still love her.

Lot's of guys are that way...it's why they have all of thos e anniversary jokes.

Don't penalize him on that one

Forgets first Kiss? Yeah.....bring out the whips

Answer 5

guys dont care about special days

my dad didnt even want to give me a sweet 16 present and i was pissed

we just have to get over the fact that guys are pigs

Answer 6

He should be man enough to listen to what you have to say about it.  Tell him how you feel, and he'd better listen.  If he gets up and leaves in a huff, than he's an insensitive b*****d. If he apologizes and promises to reform, hooray!

Answer 7

Men are superior they just don't overthink things that's why they get things done.

Answer 8

Listen dear, in a relationship You have to sacrifice many times...........

And a relation named love u will have to sacrifce many  thing and its a truth..........

Like here u will have to sacrifice ur happiness if u want to keep ur relation smooth and haapy...........

Dont worry about that if he forgot ur birthday....

I know its painful 4 u to bear this......

Lt e tell u a way to make him realise that if he would have wished atleast bought a single flower/rose u would have been very happy..........

and the method is....

On his birthday wish him with plenty of good wishes and celebrate that with full joy and tell him at last as i said above

and one more thing that as ur relation will get older n older he will forget many things.........

its beet to marry him as soon as possible if u r intrested....

All d best for ur life........

Answer 9

I doubt its a personal thing. My bf of 4 years once didnt remember by birthday. These things dont seem to be a big deal to guys. Make sure he does something special tonight though. Ring him now and tell him he is taking you out for dinner tonight.!

Bloody men!