My b***s are too big!!! ?

Question

Girls please help. Im 17 years old and Im a 36 C, and I HATE it! I cant even wear my favourite t-shirts any more because they make my b***s look even bigger! Its almost impossible for me to find shirts that make me look flatter, the only way is for me to wear a tight tank top under all my shirts and its uncomfertable especially in the hot weather. My best friend constantly makes me feel worse by saying like "your b***s are too big" she says it about other girls too like its a bad thing, or "my shirts defineatley wont fit you" when we had a sleepover and Im jealous that she doesnt even have to wear bras, only sports bras. My guy friends and random guys are constantly staring and it makes me so uncomfertable, Im especially uncomfertable around my older brother cuz hes gross and an immature pig, I always try to look as flat as possible around him. People think Im older than 17 when I wear tank tops or t-shirts in the summer! WHAT SHOULD I DO? How can I make my chest look smaller? It makes me feel so insecure and unattractive!!!

Answer 1

I know exactly how you feel and I'm still trying to deal with it. I remember when I was first developing my friends constantly made me feel uncomfortable about it but I'm sure it is just because they are jealous. I also never know what to do in the hot weather, so I usually buy really small cami's to wear under the tanks and T's. I am still extremely uncomfortable being around them the summer time with bathing suits and tanks and all that but now I can see that one of them is finally developing and it's making me feel a little better. But I hate when I would go to their houses and have sleepovers or just need to change that her shirts are so small because she is. All I can really say is be proud (I have trouble with that, but I try) and also, I was a little overweight and then I started working out and when I started to lose weight I lost size in my chest. All I can really say at this point is if you got it, flaunt it. And if your friends are acting that way tword you, they arn't being a true friend.  

Answer 2

I am 12 and twice your size so you can rest at ease from my point of view  you have nothing to worry  about your the perfect size

Answer 3

omg i could slap! you think urs are big? im 15yrs old and i wear a size 44DD <----now thats huge but then again im built with a large frame so....yer

Answer 4

Seriously That's a good size, you should be proud of it, you're friends is jealous and guys are pigs, especially between the ages of 13 - 25 lol so don't worry, and just try to dress decently like don't go showing them off or anything

Answer 5

Lol Ik How You Feel

But...

I'm 11 (only 117 pounds) and i have almost 34C....

Try Less Padded Bras

Answer 6

LOL!!!!! ur b***s are not too big... First of all your friend just says "your b***s are too big" and to her friends becuase she is jelous. Secondly you should only care if they are so big to make you have back problems which 36 C is not. Thirdly, if it makes you feel uncomfortable  when guys stair at them, ignore it (because they just are attracted to them (its natural) ), or you could just yell stop  staring at my b***s, embarrassing them. Fourthly all brothers will mess with their sisters. Im 16 and i have a sister who just turned 21.... she thinks im perverted also, but she told on me so i dont talk like that much anymore.

Answer 7

aww. i know what you mean. i go through it a lot. i`m 18 and i`ve had big b***s for my body since like middle school. i`m a 32C, but i`m 5"0 and i`m like a size 00 in jeans ! i`m asian too, and since asians are alwayssss flat chested, everyone thinks mine are fake. it effing pisses me off >:[ anyways, i know, i can`t even wear tanks & stuff summer time either. i hate it. i always feel like i have to wear a jacket. i mean, truth it, we`re really blessed. i mean, everyone would kill to have b***s, and we have big b***s. no joke. but i know what you mean. i can`t wear abercrombie & fitch as much because i`m an xs but my b***s are like a large. lol. to make my chest look less big, i wear layers. like thanks, i`ll wear like two instead of one. but make it look cute, you know ? maybe a white tank, and a dark blue tank on top with jeans & dark blue flip flops. stuff like that. don`t wear low cut shirts cuz that just shows ur boobies off more. sports bras make ur b***s look smaller too cuz they squeeze them. but yeah, that`s all i know so far. good luck hun. but honestly, it`s not a bad thing. and you`re MOST DEFINATELY not going to be unattractive. you are totally attractive especially with b***s, i bet every guy wants to date you ! lol

Answer 8

All you need to do is to send a picture of those over here :D

girl! Be proud of what you got!

Answer 9

First, 36C is not that big, I think it's about average for Cdn women.  Second, your girlfriends are probably just jealous.  Third, if your brother is checking you out, you should probably tell someone.  And finally, be okay with your body.  Lots of women want a fuller chest.  Just dress appropriately for your age (no deep cleavage) and be proud of your body.

Answer 10

My last wife's b*****s were a natural 44double H. Now those are big. She eventually had breast reduction surgery.

You might just be developed beyond your years.

Do not be ashamed, their yours.