My boss is always winking at me...should I be concerned?

Question

My boss is always winking at me...should I be concerned?

Answer 1

hello Sabby,

  Its probably nothing but typical friendliness. Might be his way of an attempt at humor.

   If he is particular to make sure he only does it when you can see, he might be sending you a message. But I wouldn't worry about it unless he moves on to other attempts. If he does that remind him about employee relations, professionalism, and you are just not interested.

   But likeliness is, thats all he is going to do, unless you flirt in return.

TopCatt

Answer 2

Concerned just because someone winks at you?  Many people do that just as a friendly gesture.  To them it's like saying "Hi".  You're probably misinterpreting your boss's friendly nature, unless he's made a move on you in some other way.

Answer 3

If they do it just say" Do you have something in your eye?" or "Do you have an eye twitch?" because you do it all the time to me. If I feel uncomfortable or "concerned" I usually act stupid and ask stupid questions like that. If they do it in front of you and a couple of people you can embarrass them by asking those questions out loud.  

Answer 4

lol. my teachers do that to me............. it's creepy but it probably means that you will not get fired any time soon.

Answer 5

Being an atractive male, I get women doing stuff like that to me all the time.. unless your boss starts.. grabbing you behind of anything unessary like that then you should be concerned. .. but a simple wink is nothing to be alarmed about..  ;-)

Answer 6

just another man needing to prove that he has still got it, ask him if blinking is something men do in  their dotage. He wont do it again  

Answer 7

Some people wink a lot.  It's a benign symbol of affection for them.  Not always sexual attraction.

Unless he's grabbing your ***, propositioning you or making crude sexual comments about your body parts, let it go.