My boy friend and I never had a serious conversation. What should I do?

Question

I need someone that I can talk serious topics with and I want it to be him. I’m over the cutesy, lovey-dovey stuff and I’ve been craving substance!

Answer 1

Talk about what you want to. If he doesn't like it he can leave. Sounds kinda like you should leave though!

Answer 2

Tell him how you feel. You cant just leave him in the dark

Answer 3

I think you're best chance would be to start the conversation yourself. Bring up a topic that requires some thought and make him have an opinion. Maybe discuss a movie or something.

Answer 4

Alot of guys aren't going to give you that.

Try picking up your bf's at a library instead of the bar or mall, then you might see a change.

There's a reason many guys lack "substance". It's because most girls hardly ever require it.

The few intellectually stimulating people are out there. Unfortunatley you'll meet a dozen or so vapid & empty people along the way.

Answer 5

Don't mess with a good thing.

Answer 6

You seem to already know yourself what you want so talk about it with him. Ask him what he wants out of the relationship and what he is looking for in a future with you. If he cannot give you a serious answer then you might want to consider ending the relationship. Sometimes when the honeymoon period ends the truth does come out and you cannot change a person into becoming something different, but you can start to look for someone else.

Answer 7

obviously he is not your type. If you do not have anything to talk about, then what is this friendship about? you have to either break-up with him or suffer and endure the pain of not having a serious conversation. It's your choice.

Answer 8

First..how bout ur feeling bout him? just let ur heart talk

2nd..do u love him? just make him know obout ur feeling 4 truth

3rd..maybe he's not 4 u.. just be his friend no more

i know may be the 3rd answers is not good 4 u..but it's the best way 4 u both..

GBU _ pRAY FIRST to make ur own decision.

Answer 9

Have you tried talking to him about the things you want to talk about? If  so, and it didn't go the way you want it to, let him know how you feel.

Answer 10

how about you start talking seriously, see what he does. If he can talk about serious stuff then you have what you want, if not ...

really just talk to him and let him know what you feel, what makes you tick and about world hunger.

Answer 11

tell him this not us?! seriously  if he really cares about you he will do it. If he doesnt ignore him for a bit and tell him now you know how it feels?!    Threaten to leave him.