My boy friend have 2 babies wish x-GF and he want us to get married?

Question

He was my first boyfriend, One day I asked him if he had another girl biside me .I begged him to tell the truth and so he tel me that he had a girl friend. I few days after that I dumped him and moved to a new town with my family. 2 years passed and we meet again. He has 2 babies with the very same women I dumped him for. We still love each other but I never wished to marry someone with babies. His parents disaprove of our relationship ,They love the mother of his babies. Everything is not accoding to my dreams except that I I love him.

Answer 1

Never marry a guy with baggage ie ex and kids.

He will never please you enough, you will always think he is taking her side or the kids side over you. There are plenty of other guys in this world and he isn't the 'only one' so stop with the dreams and get a bit of common sense before you ruin not only your own life but his!!

Answer 2

I suggest you read your question.  All your answers are there.  Ultimately it's up to you to decide.

He was dating you while he was dating someone else.  Now, years later, he has children with this woman and his parents disapprove of your relationship.  Are you sure he is not married or engaged now and you are actually his mistress?

You say that you love him, but he is not being loving towards you.  You do not want to marry someone with children.  Nothing is according to your dreams.  By those criteria, I recommend you count this man out of your life and move on.  

Good luck.

Answer 3

you answered your own question. You do not want someone with children already move on and find someone else. If you can not deal with the fact he has kids than your relationship can not work. Parents are always going to like the other person they gave them grand kids. You have to get use to the other person being around she is the mother of his kids some people can deal with it and others can not. Wish u luck

Answer 4

Run while you still can!  Taking on a guy with two babies and a family that doesn't approve of you doesn't sound like my idea of a great life!  He made his bed, let him go lie in it- alone.

Answer 5

I would have to say finish highscool english classes before getting married.

Seriously though, if you love him marry him, if you don't then don't. No one on Yahoo Answers can make that decision for you  Personally, I love kids and would be fine with the situation.  Maybe you just don't like kids.  Dreams change.  A few years back I dreamt of marrying Nick Carter from BackStreet boys.  My dreams have obviously changed.

Anyways, it really is your decision and yours alone.  If you can't handle the kids then the love really doesn't matter much in the end does it?

Answer 6

If his parents don't like you then you would be in h**l and probably divorced soon anyway run away fast!!!!!!!!!  Not to mention he cheated on you with the mother of his babies anyway so he would probably always cheat on you with her.