My boyf sumtimes looses his hard on?

Question

when me n my boyf r sumtimes about to av s*x he'l lose his hard on.is it becase i dnt turn him on enough?he says it aint me bu surely if he had pamela anderson in bed wiv him it wudnt happen!its not as if im fat oranythin im size 8 nice size b***s so whats wrong wiv him?

Answer 1

nerves - if it happens once what do you think goes through his mind everytime. He probably can't believe his luck and is over-strssing about being good enough for you.  Next time it happens why not get him to pleasure you in other ways and while he does he's almost certain to rise to the occasion

Answer 2

I'm sorry but it might be you. Truth is, if he really wanted you, then you guys would have "pleasured" eachother. Or he's thinking about another girl. Prepare for the worse.

Answer 3

Hey girl...i see two cenarios to this: 1. if the two of you are just having s*x for the sake of it without any feelings involved, then the two of you just dont click.. However painful it might be,id suggest that you guys part ways (coz it won't get any better)...2. if you guys are actualy in love,then both of you should take time to discover what turns you on. Well am not an expert in this things but a little lickin can go a long way :)

In summary,its not about you turning him on "enough" its about turning him on the way he likes it...and for your information having small b***s isnt a problem,stop putting yourself down.

Answer 4

Prehaps posting it somewhere else would get more comments unlike this useful one.

Answer 5

Its not you, it happens to most ladies and must be terrible for a guy.

My advise is don't pressure him and just leave him for another time. Also never make fun of him about it, cos he maybe embarrassed enough and will make the situation worse. I think lack of an erection could be down to many things - although I'm not a guy, but could be down to tiredness, reservations about being able to satisfy you. Don't put pressure on and he'll get better and if it does get worse then I think he'd need to see a doctor and is likely to be due to a minor physiological thing.

Good luck!  

Answer 6

Maybe it's the juvenile way you write questions like this one ...

Answer 7

It might not be you!

Don't be upset, I know this might not help but I saw this on Friends, and it wasn't the girl's fault!

Maybe it is because he is thinking about it, which is probably making it harder for him.

Tell him to just relax.

Hope this helps!

Answer 8

Maybe your not his type and hes only really using you for s*x.

Just a thought

Answer 9

is he happy with his life, maybe he is unhappy in work. when a man is not happy with himself it interferes with his s*x life. you need to  talk to him and maybe take a little time out from s*x but have lots of four play and get his mind back on top of it. its not you he clearly has some thing on his mind. like you said you are a size 8 and look good so its not that you are not s**y, i had some thing like this happen in my relationship but we sorted it by talking and he changed jobs and all is well. so you both need to get to the ruth of this and stand by him. good luck hope i could help.

Answer 10

he is probably turned off by your awful spelling.

Answer 11

You can't just wind him up

and expect him to perform for you

It takes two to play and if you just lie back and wait for him to do all the work it aint gonna happen

Keep touching and playing with him, help him put on the condom

Touch yourself, play with your lovely size 8's, spread your legs and stroke yourself to get hin turned on, and give him a real show while he's getting ready, show him a new position you want him to do you in

Talk to him, tell him how much your wanting him, give him a hj or a bj to keep his wood hard, keep encouraging him

Don't act as if your expecting him not to be up to the job

I'm sure you can work it out together

: )

Answer 12

pam andersons getting a little ugly now though... maybe 90s pam would do it. at any rate, it happens to every guy sometimes. he's for sure just as embarrassed as you. if it happens more than 1 in 4 times, he should see a doctor about it.  im sure it's not you, honey.

Answer 13

It's either wrong with you or him cuz i never had this xperience .

Answer 14

There is nothing wrong, really. All you are doing is starting the s*x thing at a rush. To get the best out of the moment for both of you, foreplay must

be the basis of a loving time. Take your time to get aroused, explore each other and wait for the time when basically you cannot wait any longer, then you will both be able to go on for longer than you thought possible and at the same time, you will learn more about your likes and dislikes.

Enjoy and have fun learning.

Answer 15

It'll be because of something else bothering him - it's psychological.

When it happens, avoid looking at him with the 'what's wrong?' or 'is it me?' face, as that will make it worse. I usually find that if I push him back onto the bed and do the oral thing for a bit, that helps ;)

Answer 16

could have brewers droop,!!

Answer 17

Sounds like is having second thoughts about s*x, maybe he just isn't up to dealing with a foxy lady like you, maybe he is lusting after someone else, your s*x life is boring or just maybe he is turning/gone g*y.

Hope this helps