My boyfreind cheated on me, what do i do about that?

Question

ok so this is complicated, i started dated this guy, and a guy i work with was telling that he was a bad guy and that i should let him go, but i didn't want to listen to him. but he was hate brother of the besfriend of the girl he cheated on me for, and she is my besfriend. i now that sounds horrible..or confusing. he was dating me and my besfriend at the same time and neither of us knew it till a few weeks later. he went over seas and i dumped him in a letter and ihaven'tt heard from him since, and that was like 3 months ago. and idon'tt know what to do about it, idon'tt want to be mean. help?

Answer 1

I don't understand...you dumped him right?  Great! Sounds like he was a loser...don't be a weak woman and let him back in.

Answer 2

My Gosh woman! It's been three months get over it already!

Remember he cheated on you! You're not being mean you're being smart! No one should be with a cheater. It's not worth your time. Let the loser suffer with someone who is just like him and we'll see how he likes it. Don't put to much thoughts to a guy you haven't heard in for three months. It's not worth your time. Get out in the world and meet new people. Who knows... there just might be a guy out there waiting for you.

Answer 3

F u ck da other girl up  

Answer 4

dump them both.  you don't need a cheater.  they will never stop.

Answer 5

dump them, they where mean to you so why not dump them? then obviously dont care about you