My boyfrield is in the jail and i dont know if h**l want to talk to me when he comes out!!?

Question

I stuck my boyfrield in for something he did but i told him not to do it. now hes in the jail on remand and i dont know if he'll talk to me when he gets out, he phoned me this morning and said he loved me but i dont know if he was just saying that cause his credit on the phone was running out!! am so worried!!

Answer 1

At the end of the day, you know in your heart what your relationship is like.. you ratted on him and i'm sure he's not too happy about that right now, how he will feel after he's done his time is another story.  Give him time to settle his thoughts and more importantly, give yourself time to figure out what you want and what is best for you.  Maybe this guy isn't right for you anyway!!!

Answer 2

You ratted him out and he is in jail.  Is it really that important if he wants to talk to you?

Wow, you two deserve each other.

Answer 3

omg, i dont think hes going to thank you for you dobbing him into prison. did you think he would when you did it??  

Answer 4

why do you wanna be with a guy in jail anyways?!  

Answer 5

Avoid him first. Speak to him just realising that you will only love him, if he will get through all bad things.

Answer 6

Why don't you meet someone nice who isn't a criminal who you can build a stable life with? much better for your piece of mind.

Answer 7

I hope one of You wares the Pants ..., Or are You both passive ..

      Find The Word of God , and start  living life like You are too , or

      loose it like b******s , for not allowing Christ to correct You ..

    

      Any one that knows to do good , and doeth it not to him it is Sin ..

      How Much Will You get away with when the Lord Knocks on

      Your door , and says Now is the Hour ..

      Are You going to be as the foolish Virgins , with out enough oil,

      and not have any when the bridegroom cometh ..  WM ..

    

PS .. If You are looken for pity , or someone to shed a tear on ,

      Maybe You should lock Your self up In a 6x9 cell and have only

      The  King James Version Bible  to read .. If it will make a Man out

      of You .. Or should

      I say till it makes a Man out of You .. WM .. (sob story)

      Try writting some thing above  then how pittiful sin , and sickness

      can

      be..Forgive your self and put God as Lord of Your Life. Or get off

      the internet ..

Answer 8

i think he's going to tell you he's leaving you for his cell mate.

Answer 9

Sounds like you need to learn to live without a boyfriend.

Answer 10

You will be lucky if he talks to you after grassing him.

Answer 11

I wouldn't bother with him any more

Answer 12

obviously, this is a very difficult situation. If he knows that you're the one who sent him there, there's going to be mixed feelings towards you, if not anger. And even if he doesn't know? Your guilt is going to swallow you alive. It depends on what he did, and what he's serving, but keep in mind, noone likes being ratted out.

Best of my luck to you, but remember, You've got to keep your best interests in mind. You shouldn't expose yourself to someone that could possibly hurt you later on, no matter how much you *love* them.

Answer 13

What a mess you are in.

Firstly you need to find new friends and get over this guy, he is no good for you and will drag you down.

Secondly, don't have anything to do with people who would use you and put your career/job on the line for the to commit a crime.

Thirdly, does he know you were the one that helped the police nail him?  I don't imagine he'll be too pleased when he does and then, from experience, he will beat you.

I would suggest you cut contact with him, get yourself a new job and make new friends while you are there, otherwise you're life will be in a downward spiral you will have no control over before you know it!!

Answer 14

is this a question??

6-8 years for burglary lol do you expect me to believe that?

come to think about it did you believe that?

dump this sorry loser and start a fresh life

Answer 15

I'm sure he'll be fine with you if he said he loves you.  Why don't you write to him to find out?

Answer 16

write him a letter telling him to tie a yellow ribbon 'round an old oak tree when he gets out if he still loves you. If he doesn't tell him to get on a bus and forget about it....

Answer 17

go and visit him ask him if he stil wants to be with you

Answer 18

Why would you want to date a guy who is in jail for doing something bad? You need to raise your standards! You can do better then some jerk out committing crimes. I suggest you dump him now you have already gotten an idea of what your life will be like if you stick with him (you will be bailing him out forever).  

Answer 19

so sorry

Answer 20

how about you tell us what you told him not to do... what he is charged with & how long he is going to be locked up for so we can give you a good answer ?

Answer 21

if you want to know the answer, why don't you go and visit him and ask? you will be able to read in between the lines better that way.

Answer 22

If he did something wrong and you turned him in, that's his fault for doing it. Why would you want to be with someone that breaks the law anyways.

Time to move on.....