My boyfriend's EX Girlfriend keeps bothering him, and especially ME...what to to?

Question

OK. so my bf and I have been dating for over a half year now, and things are going great. I truley believe we really love each other, but his ex girlfriend can't seem to let him go. Shetexts, calls, and emails him... all hours of the night. One particular ti,me was 3am in the morning. Now i'm no dummy, and automatically accussed my bf of speaking with her. He denys it, and says he doesn't want anything to do with her, and I believe that. I'm with him everyday, and so much apart of his life, I know he wouldn't go behind my back like that. It just pisses me off how she will not leave him or myself alone. Whenever I rebuttle back,she communicates even more with him. I'm trying to be the bigger person, but it's really hard. What do you think I should do? It just has been really bothering me lately.

Answer 1

I think u should tell ur man to get his # changed. If he really loves u he would do it 4 u. Then he can only let ppl close 2 him hav his #. And if all of a sudden she starts callin again....then u will kno hes the one that gave her his #. And from there u will kno if hes been lyin about the other times they supposedly "haven't talked."

Answer 2

i agree with donedeal get ur bf to stop all contact with her.  

Answer 3

You and your boyfriend should confront her and tell her together to leave you both alone or get a restraining order.

Answer 4

If it is such a problem for your bf perhaps he should consider blocking her or changing his mail addy, tel no. etc?

Ignoring her will upset her more than trying to confront her.  That just gives her the attention she craves.

He should ignore her and delete everything without opening it.  If she calls and he answers he should hang up immediately.  She is stalking him, and it is his issue to deal with - not yours.

She is hoping to break you up by making you argue over her.  Tell him firmly you have had enough and ask him to end all contact.  If he can't do that I'd be inclined to give him some alone time.  I couldn't put up with that drama for long.

Answer 5

This is his problem to deal with.  Anything you say, she'll just interpret as the "stupid new girl getting in the way."  He needs to tell her to go away once and for all, or he's going to start pursuing formal harrassment charges.  That, or ignore her until she finally gets tired of trying - though if he's not doing anything to encourage her, that doesn't seem to be working.  

Answer 6

talk to you bf about it. and tell him its bothering you and you dont know how much more you can take of it. and ask him to tell her to leave him alone. and that he doesnt want anything to do with her.. i think the only person that shell listen to his him about this.. just make sure your there when he writes to her..

Answer 7

I think you should take his phone text her and tell her to leave him alone.

Answer 8

you 2 should just ignore her totally!that will do it!after a while she will get tha picture and just leAVE the both of u alone!when she calls dont answer!wen she texts dont text back!wen she emails dont email her back!i promise that will make her even more madder than saying something to her about it!

Answer 9

I agree that the ex is seeking attention. Apparently, she's having a very hard time letting go. You need to tell your BF how much this bothers you. He has to be the one to tell her to back off. Preferably with you sitting in. Or he can simply change his number and email address.