My boyfriend's dad doesn't like me?

Question

I just don't get why though...I dress modestly...I don't tell perverted jokes..I get good grades...we are both caucasian, both form upper middle class families...I don't have any tattoos, only my ears are pierced, I don't wear a lot of make up...why doesn't he like me?

Answer 1

he believe his son deserve better one

Answer 2

ok I like B.'s answer, but maybe its because he doesn't like ur parents  

Answer 3

Either your perception of things is slightly off, or he just doesn't like your personality.

Answer 4

Ask your boyfriend if he talks to his dad about you.

My ex used to tell his dad about every problem we had, and his step mom. It pissed me off because obviously they're going to be bias toward their son so they both hate me. But we're still friends, so I smile at them to p**s them off because he is " forbidden " to hang out with me. ******* parents.  

Answer 5

well,

change your attitude towards him.

maybe thats why [[not saying you are snotty]]

Answer 6

it could be a sort of reasons. has he verbally told you he doesn't like you? if not i suggest you sit down and ask him what it is he doesn't like about you!!!

Answer 7

Perhaps your boyfriend said something about you that his dad doesn't approve of.

Perhaps his dad knows yr mum, he slept with her years ago & he's afraid you know & yr going to tell his wife?

Perhaps it's to stop himself from 'wanting you'

Perhaps you are just not quite rich enough?

Answer 8

um hard to tell by that, you mostly focused on the exterior, parents tend to also look for whats inside and how you handle things...he may have heard something bad...or maybe dont like your parents and asume hence you must be bad seed

Answer 9

how old are you ?? maybe he thinks you're distracting his son from school, work, sports, etc or that you're simply too young to be in a relationship

Answer 10

Maybe he thinks you smell  

Answer 11

how do you know he doesn't like you? he may just be uncomfortable with his son dating anyone. why don't you discuss this issue with your boy friend and then if he doesn't know why try giving your boyfriend's dad sometime and maybe he won't seem so bad anymore.

Answer 12

Dads perspective here.  Dad probably has seen girls come and go. Possibly its easier not to know or like the kid, knowing that they will be down the road sooner or later. I do that with my daughters BFs, never get close knowing that its just a thing and soon they will be broken hearted and down the road. Sucks to be a parent in the middle of it, so its easier not to open up and get close to them or show any emotions towards them.  

Answer 13

There are just some parents who will never be satisfied with their child's significant other. He may not think you're "good enough" for his son, despite the fact you seem to be quite a lovely girl. Or maybe he thinks his son is too young to be in a serious relationship.

Ask your boyfriend, perhaps he knows or may be able to find out.

Just remember...it's not really you, hon. Odds are, it's just some strange reason in his father's head that you can't do much to change. He just needs to decide to accept you for himself.

Answer 14

How do you know he does not like you?? Did he tell you he does not like you? It could be your to fat. It could be your to skinny. Maybe he thinks your ugly. Maybe he thinks your so hot and wants you so bad that he does not know what to say. Maybe he was in the military and is a hardened killing man and does not show a lot of emotion and you take it as a way of dislike or hate. Try asking him why he hate you if you are so sure.    

Answer 15

the only thing i can think of is he wants the best for his son and has too high of expectations, i am sure thats probably it, otherwise there is something else that i don't know and that you probably don't know either.

Answer 16

Maybe you are not friendly to him, just be yourself. Try to be closer to him. Try to know his likes and dislikes.  If ever you did everything to be noticed by his dad, well I don't think that  you should  be bother on this situation anymore.  As long you love and respect each other that relationship in the future will be the product of trial you started with his dad.

Answer 17

he thinks his son deserves better... typical for a father.  don't worry about it, help out with family matters as much as u can, but don't get too attatched because if something happens u wanna be able to get out easily.  ur boyfriend is what matters the most, show them that.

Answer 18

it may just be him, he probably has issues with girlfriends of his son in general it could be nothing personal.

don't worry about him anyway, if he really loves his son (your boyfriend) he should trust his decisions in life, especially with who he chooses to be in a relationship with.

by the sound of it there is nothing YOU are doing 'wrong' its not like your sending immediate messages that your going to be unfaithful or break his sons heart but maybe its more than just the way you look, perhaps he has a bad feeling about something? everyone is different. if it really bothers you perhaps ask your boyfriend if he knows why? I'm sure he will reassure you that there is nothing wrong with you at all.

Answer 19

Perhaps if you ask your boyfriend or him, you can find out.

Answer 20

maybe he thinks you're annoying