My boyfriend's mother don't want to accept my pregnacy?

Question

she keep on talking about she not happy about it and keep saying stupid unnecessary stuff. she even said she don't want to deal with a grandchild. why is she acting like this? my baby isn'nt due to the first of next year. i never asked her for anything. she don't even have to buy the baby anything she dont even have to babysit. why is treating me so bad and just accept the fact she is going to have a grandchild

Answer 1

Are you living in her house? If you are GET OUT OF THERE! and go live w/your parents! You don't need negative vibes! Let you boyfriend know that you leaving and ask him if his staying or going with you.

(This way you know where he stands as well) Maybe this move will be a smart move. And boyfriends mother will have to over it!

Answer 2

Maybe she's afraid that people will think she is old if anyone should ever hear the child call her Granny!

Tell her you promise that little Jack or Jill will refer to her as their big sister.  Then offer to loan her your tube tops and mini skirts while you are are with child.  

Answer 3

shes just in shock. maybe she is a little angry and doesn't want anything to do with the baby? i don't know but its your baby don't let her bad mood put you in a slump!

Answer 4

Well, its a good thing she's not the one having a baby. Don't let her ruin this experience for you. She'll come around eventually, and if not, its her loss.

Answer 5

She'll get used to it once you are further along, and after you have it, she will be the best grandma around.  

Trust me.

Answer 6

she will come around