My boyfriend's 10 year old son goes to his mother's house practically across the country every summer. Shortly after he left this summer, Jim (my boyfriend) and I moved in together, and though we are not married, I will be playing some sort of parental role when the kid returns, and Jim and I do plan on getting married in the next year or two. His son Hunter is returning in a week, and we always got along fine and Jim said that Hunter said he really liked me, he doesn't really throw tantrums, and from what I've observed and Jim has told me, he doesn't really cause a lot of trouble.
But my real question is: I am 22 years old, just graduated college, and have never had a child- in fact I never even babysat for anyone's children when I was a teenager. I am very new at this, and I'm sure that there's a lot to parenting that I don't know about. I don't plan to spoil or baby him, but I plan to treat him with respect. Any advice?
Oh, and Jim is 33.
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