My boyfriend broke up with me because of my period!?

Question

Okay i was sleeping over my b/f house when i got my period. It took me while before i realized it. When my b/f saw the mess i made he started yelling at me saying i had no respect for his property. We got in a yelling match then he broke up with me. Should i offer to pay for the sheets? Has anything every happen to you like this? Guys if your g/f got her period on her sheets how would you act? would you break up with her?

Answer 1

I would suggest that you re-formulate your question in a fair way.  Your bf did not leave you because of your period, he left you because you spoiled his sheets.  He knew, as we men know, thay women have their periods on more or less a regular basis.  There is the name "period" (menstruation).  And we also know that a regular woman is supposed to know with reasonable approximation, when is she going to have her period.  So, it is reasonable to assume that a woman take the necessary precautions to avoid accidental happenings like the one you two went through.

That said, I think that you should pay for the spoiled sheets. But. . . a guy (man) that does what he did because of this. . . ?  Well, I'd say that that is not a good man for you. . . nor for any woman.  So, say "hasta la vista baby" to him and look for somebody with a head over his shoulders and some brains inside the craneal cavity.  Unless it is that you think that you can fix stupid.  Forget it.  You can't fix stupid.  Good luck.  Adian.

Answer 2

omfg....that's horrible! Don't even pay for them it was an accident, your ex will never end up married the rate he's going.

Answer 3

He's probably g*y and can't cope with a real woman. The blood will come out in the wash. See it as a lucky escape, what an immature jerk!

Answer 4

Buy him new sheets and buy yourself a new calendar and count off 28 days and you'll know when its coming next time.

Answer 5

thats not your fault and he should not have reacted like that,it was wrong of him.hes immature

Answer 6

...Summer, forget that dud...he was only thinking of himself...his true nature and fortunate for you to find this out early in the relationship...

...continue to socialize and meet others, you will meet someone you really care for and the feelings will be returned...good luck...

...thanks for asking...

Answer 7

He over-reacted. Seven up or sprite will get rid of that stain if applied quickly.  I guess he is a sissy over a natural body function of a woman.  Unless he is going to turn g*y, he is going to have to learn to deal with it.  Period (pun intended)

Answer 8

This is certainly no reason to split up.  Things like this happen and it's not like you did it on purpose.  Believe me when I tell you it might be the first time this has happened but it wont be the last.  Sounds to me like he is not very mature and should have a bit more understanding on how your system works.  This is certainly not something worth yelling at you over.  Also If he hooks up with someone else the chances are that eventually it will happen again.  This has happened to me with my wife and we are still married.  Just clean it up and go back to sleep.  And no I would not offer to pay of the sheets, just tell him to wash them.  

Answer 9

oh girl,I had my period one time while we were having s*x.Haha.he hates when I bring it up.But your ex is an ***.He is completely immature.No ones perfect.You can do better and NO,dont pay him for the sheets.

Answer 10

find a man ( or boy depending on your age) with a brain

Answer 11

Pay for the sheets and get rid of the boyfriend.  Good thing you found out about his weirdness before you got married or had a kid by him.  Consider this a lesson learned and good riddance.  He sounds mighty immature.

Answer 12

Yeah no, don't pay for the sheets.  He dumped you over something so trivial, he's not worth the money.  To be honest, he sounds like a verbal abuser in the making.  You have no respect for his property?  It was an accident!  Women don't plan their periods and he sounds a little too immature to understand that.  Let him go.  He'll wash or get new sheets.  The only thing you should feel sorry for is his next poor gf who has to put up with that c**p.