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My boyfriend broke with me, what should I do?

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My parents are Greeks, but they immigrated to the USA, where I was born. I visited my grandparents in Greece and met a guy, Kostos. We well madly in love, and corresponded when I went back home (he lived on a small island, no Internet in his house). Then I could not endure the long distance, waiting for letters and hoping, and broke up with him, though I loved him. I became very depressed. Several months later he suddenly he came to my parents' house - he got a summer job in States, and came to meet me and see if I still had feelings for him. We were so happy, for about a week. He came every weekend - he worked in another city. Then one weekend he didn't come, called me and told me that he had to go back to Greece. He wrote to tell me that though he loved me, he could not be with me, and didn't tell why. One week later my grandfather had a stroke, and we all went to Greece. He died without us. I met Kostos at the funeral mass, in church. He was with a blond woman, and they introduced her to me as his new bride. He got married! Her name is Mariana. When I broke with him, he went out with her three times, and got her pregnant. Greece is an old fashioned place, and there was no paternity test or anything, but man must marry when he gets a girl in trouble. What should I do?

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  1. 1:change to Singles and dating section

    2: move on


  2. you and all your girlfriends should buy a pair of pants that magically fits you all. and then hug each other and giggle.

  3. Act very depressed and sad for a while until you see your friend Carmens' stepbrother. You will feel a certain connection with him, even though you won't get together. But remember Lena, you can't brood over Kostos forever, you must get over him one day.

  4. There are lots of fish in the Aegean. Hook one.

  5. U R SUCH A POSER!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Y R U TRYING TO BE LENA???????????  GET A LIFE!!!!!!!! LENA DOESN'T EXISTS!!!!!!!! SHE IS A FREAKING CHARACTER BY ANN BRASHARES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  AND I TOTALLY DOUBT THAT URE ALEXIS!!!!!!!!!!!!  

  6. That's from the Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants 2, isn't it?  I love Greece, it's an amazing, amazing country.

  7. There is nothing you CAN do -- he's married, and therefore, he is unavailable.  It's a sad situation, but you HAD released him to explore relationships with other women when you broke up with him.  It looks like he did the somewhat honorable thing by going back and marrying this girl.

    Move on, kiddo.  You had your chance and you blew it.  

    At least, that's what I'd tell Lena! :-)

  8. Find another boyfriend.

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