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My boyfriend can't seem to ejaculate?

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We had s*x for the first time last night - we've been talking for awhile and finally did it, and it was great! But, after like an hour he still hadn't came, and we both were getting tired and so then he kinda beat it and came. I felt like I didn't really do my job or I wasn't good enough but he swears up and down that I was amazing.

I'm wondering if maybe it's psychological? He said he's "so used to holding it and not wanting to ... inside".

Kinda hurt my ego, I know he didn't intentionally.

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  1. Why would you want him to come? Isnt that like good so you won't get pregnat. Or is come not sperm?


  2. Its not you at all. It is completely psychological. Dont worry about it!

  3. 1. Is he on any medications? Anti-depressants and others that cause this.

    2. Maybe just nervousness on his part.  

  4. Dont worry, its not your fault....... Dont feel bad

    hope i helped

    <3Lexxi

  5. It could definitely be psychological especially if he said he was afraid to *** inside you. Were you using a condom? If not he might have been frightened by the possibility of you getting pregnant. Also, some medication (especially meds for depression, anxiety, bipolar) can affect a man's sexual function in many strange ways.  

  6. I'm a guy..and this is my exact same scenario about 3 weeks ago with my girl.  All I would say is don't be surprised, or hurt, if he can't come the 2nd or 3rd time you guys meet.  We're not all the same, but if he's a little like me, it's very much psychological.  Maybe he takes pride in knowing he can last long?  When that occurs, you have held it in for so long that it may take a while, comfort, and satisfaction in knowing you did things right.  I'm not a guy who sleeps around too.  If i'm with my girl, intimacy plays a big part, as much as some guys like to play off that they can't connect with their feelings etc etc.  Give it sometime for him to become familiar with your touch, and intimacy, let him get comfortable.  It took me a week before I started feeling comfortable around my girl.

  7. Yes, it could be psychological, and partly because the comdom also decreases his sensitivity, which is probably already diminished because of circumcision damage.    Circumcision always damages the p***s and sexual sensitivity.

  8. Don't worry about it, all things will work out in the end. It's not your fault. h**l, a lot of women complain because their boyfriends only last a couple of minutes or less. They would love to  have one that can last one hour. You will slowly work out this problem.

    Good Luck and have a great relaxed time with your boyfriend.

  9. Lots of guys have problems. It's not your fault at all, or his.

    If he can m********e okay, he's probably just got a little performance anxiety. Just try to get very comfortable before you start, relax as much as you can, and keep trying. You'll work it out eventually.

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