My boyfriend comes really quickly is this common and is there any way we can make s*x last longer? ?

Question

when we have s*x, its not even five minutes later before my boyfriend says i'm not going to be much longer... and it annoys both of us. hes been to see his doctor and he said that it should be back to normal in a few weeks, well its not. does anyone else have this problem? and what can we do to help?

Answer 1

A typical problem.  A useful solution: more foreplay.

Answer 2

Five minutes does not qualify as premature ejaculation.  It's actually pretty average.  If he's consistent, just stop and do other things to give him a rest and let him recharge.  Just don't mess with his glans during the rest or it'll be a wasted effort.

Answer 3

Try withdrawing at a planned time. Let the arousal die down., then start again. Also, he should try practicing his Kegel exercises (these are the muscles that let you hold your water when you want to urinate).

Answer 4

This is known as Premature Ejaculation and many men suffer from it. If he's nervous or feeling pressured to last longer, odds are he'll ejaculate quicker than if he relaxed both his mind and body and just enjoyed the experience. Before making love, massage him and just let him know that you love him for him. Doing this will alleviate some of the nervousness or frustration from him. When he's about to ejaculate, reccommend him to withdraw from you and just kiss and touch him for a few moments, then let him reenter you. If you don't act like this is a major problem, he'll be able to last longer. Hope this helps.

Answer 5

my boyfriend does that too

its okay with us because he can stay hard for a while longer after he comes

Answer 6

he can try a c**k ring or try masturbating about 15 Min's before he is ready to have s*x and he will probably last much longer because every time a guy ejaculates in a 24 hour period the next time takes longer.

Answer 7

Kegels for men.

SQUEEZE REAL TIGHT, release.

This leads to the male being able to experience multiple orgasms, without ever actually coming.

But it takes a lot of effort.

Answer 8

What he needs to do is recognize the point at which he is about to ejaculate.  Then just stop deep in, wait for the moment to pass.  As he does this more and more, he will be able to control it better.  Dont withdraw because the enticement of entering again will be too much. Practice this for a bit, get the breathing to slow down and everything will be fine.  Read up on the Kama Sutra.  That will help him a lot.