My boyfriend didn't give me my bday present!

Question

me and my boyfriend have been seeing each other for 2.5 years. but this bday ( which was 2 months and 3 days ago) he didnt give me a present. He claims that he has it, and i know he does, but it isnt " finished" what ever that is supposed to mean. He asked me if i want him to tell me what it is, and then give it to me when it is " ready" but I said no as I would rather see and know what it is all at once when i get it.

should i be mad at him??? I mean that is a really long time right??

The thing is I love him, and every other holliday we have exchanged beautiful gifts... why now do I not have my gift still??

PLEASE HELP!

Answer 1

Just relax and give him some time. He might be working really hard on something. If you're that worried just let him tell you what it is!

Answer 2

i'd be upset that he didnt plan ahead of time to be able to give my gift to me on my birthday.. so yeah you have a right to be upset that he didnt plan better. ask him jokingly whether you're ever going to see it, and tell him at the rate he's going he might as well just wait until your next birthday and maybe itll be done by then? that's tough.. good luck

Answer 3

Just wait ... I have a feeling that your gift will be both cute and beautiful, and you understand why he's waiting for it to be 'finished' before he gives it to you ... and I think you'll be getting it soon.  

Answer 4

He obviously don't have anything for you. But if you been with him that long and love him it shouldn't matter.  

At least it wasn't a Chicago martini glass purchased at the airport lol that's what I got for Christmas, and I gave him a blackberry!!

Answer 5

I Bet its a painting or a model is he creative???

Answer 6

Dump his ***.  He's lying he doesn't have a gift.

Answer 7

will what u have to do  is to tell him that he for got and u will forgive him

  

Answer 8

You need to be patient!  He is obviously putting alot of time and effort into this gift.  I am sure that if you just wait, it will be worth it.  Gifts from the heart are always the best!  Dont be angry with him.  Its not like he completely forgot you.

Good luck

Answer 9

Maybe it is a house. Be patient. After all he did offer to tell you. Apparently he is not hiding anything but the surprise. The best things in life are worth waiting for. If it turns out to be less then expected for the time frame. Then it tells you something about his integrity, honesty and character.

Answer 10

If you've been dating for 2 and a half years, then a gift shouldn't be important. Sure, they're nice, but it's not the end of the world if you don't get one.

Answer 11

He has nothing for you.  

Answer 12

wow don't listen to the idiot who says dump him for something like that. i dont think he would say "do you want to know what it is?" if he didn't have a plan..

Answer 13

I would think he is lying....if he comes up with a gift at this point then he's only covering for his lies.

Answer 14

Oh suck it up

Answer 15

i think you are over reacting.  Love is not about gifts its just not.  maybe he is working on something really special for you such as a engagement ring or something... you never know.  Relax love him for who he is and not what monetary amount he gives you!

Answer 16

Sounds like you're in this relationship to get stuff.  Forget the gift.  Don't be mad.  Be glad you still have a boyfriend.