My boyfriend does not show ANY signs of being g*y...but I keep that in the back of mind he MAY be. WHY????

Question

He is a very good looking guy and many g*y guys and straight women check him out like crazy. Maybe it's my own insecurities? But I am just so afraid that one day I will wake up and find out that he's g*y. Just because so many people are coming out of the closet....but, again...he shows NO signs of being g*y. Am I just weird????!

Answer 1

it sounds like you are just insecure about being with him

Answer 2

OK, I've NEVER understood what the whole earth-shattering revelation of someone's BF or GF being g*y is! So what? Are you afraid it would reflect badly on you regarding judgment of character? How would HIS being g*y cause such a monumental shift in the universe that life would never be the same for you? Do you fear social ridicule because your ex would be a homosexual? I just don't get it...

Would you be devastated if he left you for another GUY? Let me ask you: how would that be any different if he left you for another GIRL? How would that be any different if he left you for some 56-year-old female Russian weightlifter with a mustache and thighs as big around as his chest? IS there a difference?

I think you need to stop worrying about it and be thankful you've found someone to spend time with.

Answer 3

Honestly, it sounds like you are just having some issues with insecurity.  Just relax, enjoy the time that you have with him now and don't let your constant worrying mess that up : )

Answer 4

lol i had the same thing before for a while lol

i couldnt explain but i constantly for some unknown reason to me that thought that my boyfreind was straight lol

im sure its fine!

Answer 5

OMGOSH

how is your s*x life.

If he has to watch g*y p**n or look @ guys (t.v) to have s*x with you..then hes g*y.

If he has to take 2 viagra pills to have s*x with you then hes g*y

and if he has to get drunk to have s*x with you then hes g*y.

If he can't keep it up..

hes g*y

sweetie

Answer 6

You're just freaking out because you're afraid he's too good for you. Just chill out, and enjoy what you've got.

Answer 7

We're all a little weird yours is just closer to the top.If there are no signs of same s*x tendencies there probably are no same s*x tendencies. I want to point out that if you ask your Beau if he's g*y, it will strike a blow to his ego (assuming he is straight) you could get dumped.

Answer 8

                                SERIOUS ANSWER

No need to hit the panic button yet sweetie, a hunk of a straight guy should have the tendency to manicure, get salon work, have multiple mirrors and even blend ones blemishes with a bit of foundation occasionally, even that's still extremely straight.

Im tv and have wonderful shopping and chat with girls, on the other hand i know how to swig a beer and overhaul an engine.

Sorry, back to you LOL, hes all straight till the male kissing starts hun, till then be relaxed.

Answer 9

g*y is the least of your problem. It is you that is the problem. I should be honoured that both women and men checked my partner out. What really matters is how committed and truthful you guys together.