My boyfriend doesn't answer my phone calls?

Question

My boyfriend hasn't called me since Monday morning and I've been calling him ever since. Today I called about 5 times and it rings for awhile and goes straight to voicemail.

Is this his way of dumping me ?

On Sunday when he dropped me off, he called about 9 or 10 times and I was asleep all evening.

The next day on Monday he called at 7am and I didn't answer because my house phone was off. So I called him until 1pm.

His cellphone is his Grandma's phone but he uses it because they live together without a housephone, so it's his as well.

Does that mean I'm dumped most likely, I won't trip out, it's just that this is confusing me and kind of taking my focus out of my priorities. Has he moved on, so I can start walking solo now.

Because I'm kind of wondering where I stand, what is your opinion ? Would a man be pissed for so long for some reason ?

Answer 1

That's what happens when you date a man with a monkey brain!

Answer 2

Not necessarily so.  He could be just busy...or if you don't want to take the naive route, he could be avoiding you because he has "other" things in mind.  I wouldn't necessarily jump the gun and say that he's dumping you.  Have you guys just recently start having problems in your relationship?  Have you guys gotten into a fallout?  If it were me, I wouldn't predict something unless I had more obvious signs.  Hope everything works out for you!

Answer 3

I would just stop calling him for now, he knows you have called him, so just sit back & see what happens. Maybe something happened & he had to go out of town. Who knows??? Don't let it get to ya! The best advice I ever got was, Whatever happens, happens.

Answer 4

well, there could be alot of reasons. maybe he's ignoring you,out of town, moved on, lost his phone, you name it. if its possible maybe you could stop by the house with a friend and see if he's there.if he continues to ignore you then just move on too. good luck!

Answer 5

dunno

Answer 6

send him a get well card. trust me, it will floor him.

Answer 7

God im sorry to tell you this, but he passed monday evening, I thought you knew.

PS Im single and well blessed in bed.

Answer 8

You would probably get more answers in dating and relationships section, rather than anthropology, but ya, he's just not into you.

Answer 9

Why is this in Anthropology?

Answer 10

He could be letting it ring to get even for letting yours ring.

He may have it off.The battery may be low.If you are playing little games of "don't answer the phone,then you are not serious about each other.

Not all guys "are different".I would tell you to your face,if I was pissed at you.

Answer 11

Perhaps give it a week of silence. If you hear from him by then or sooner, great. If not, then maybe in a week leave a message letting him know you were wondering where he's been, that you've started to wonder if you've been dumped, and if so than at least let you know.

Answer 12

It's time to get rid of him. Leave a voicemail and ask him what's going on. If he doesn't answer THAT, just forget about this immature boy.