My boyfriend doesn't say " I love You " As much a i do !!!!?

Question

I tell my boyfriend i love him all the time !!! but he doesn't say it that much !! I know he loves me a lot and he gets me gifts and asks me out and kisses me and stuff but he doesn't actually SAY it that much.. and it bothers me.. Why doesn't he ? And What should i do about it ?

Answer 1

what hes doing with such a needy person like you, i suppose ill never understand.

dont do anythign about it. be grateful h buys you things and says it at all.

Do you need constant reassurement? are you that insecure?

Answer 2

That's is something that you are just going to get used to. Even if your boyfriend says I love you in the beginning over time the amount of times will drop. its not that he doesn't love you, its just how most men work. its like the story my grandma cut out of the paper years ago. it was about a women who complained that her husband hadn't said I love you in years. His reasoning was that nothing had changed since the last time he told her. That doesn't make it right, but that is how general view men have. I have been married for 6 years and sometimes I need to remind myself that while it isn't all that important to it is to her. So maybe tell him that he doesn't have to say it every time you do but sometimes he needs to.

Answer 3

And he never will...most guys, at least the manly ones-don't demonstrate their emotions as readily as women do in general. Get used to it; as long as you keep applying women's standards to male individuals, you're going to be very disappointed. The differences are what's beautiful, stop fighting them and just accept what you cannot change...

Answer 4

saying "I love you" all the time is not a very big deal. not all guys and not all girls (such as me) will always say those words. by just the actions your BF is showing you is much enough than saying words without the actions.

Answer 5

In actuality, I've been in a relationship in the past were the girl said "I love you" every day, and it really bothered me alot. It got to the point were I didnt want to tell her that I loved her. There is such a thing as over saying it. If you say "I love you" all the time, its like how is someone supposed to believe it? It becomes desensitizing after a while. My advice is that you say it less often so the words actually have meaning, rather then just saying it because thats how you feel that very second.  

Answer 6

Ask him to say it more ... easy !