My boyfriend doesn't shower!!! HELP!!!?

Question

Like i want to tell him to go home and take a shower because when we're hanging out with out friends they always tell him but it doesn't seem to effect him he's still dirty i want to tell him but how? (in a nice way...)

HELP ME OUT HERE I'M DYING THE STINK HAS TO GO!!!

And i really like him but it's not helping me much to get "closer" to him.... Help please

Answer 1

Why are you with someone who doesn't care enough to bahe ehtmeselves? That's one of the most basic responsabilities of life. If he's not doig that, he's slacking in a LOT of other areas.

Answer 2

Just tell him that you cannot be "close" to him until he smells nice.

Or buy him some deodorants - he may take the hint then.

Answer 3

Ask him why he doesn't shower.

I know when I feel really really depressed I don't bother either, of course that only usually lasts for a few days. Just ask him I guess, and tell him the truth.

Answer 4

Well be thankful that he is not your husband! This is something that you have to address! Find the right time and try not to embarrass him and say baby I love you so much but it would make me soooooo happy if you had a shower. Or be straight out say I really care for you but this is one thing that really bothers me and if we can't resolve this something will have to change! Really when you are dating this is the best time its to late when you are stuck with a couple of kids. You can also buy him some scented body was and tell him that the sent drives you wild!!!!  

Answer 5

The fact that you dont (physically.. i hope, and mentally) have the sack to tell his retarded *** to take a bath is beyond me.

Dump Him

He has syphilis

and crabs

Have fun boning Oscar the grouch. ( he lives in a trash can, much like your boyfriend)>

Answer 6

Dump him.. and when he ask why?? Tell him its because he smells like a trash can.. he will go home and shower for sure...

Answer 7

Tell him you'll take a shower with him?

Or just be straight forward and say that he needs to take a shower.

That's pretty disgusting and really unsanitary, he might catch something if he's that dirty...

Answer 8

come straight out and tell him or leave him thats what I did cause my bf wouldn't take a shower but once every two weeks

Answer 9

thats stinks!!gggrrrrooossssss.....



dump him..what f he likes to marry u?can you take it for the rest of ur lyf??

Answer 10

Just tell him he needs to shower more often cause he smells a bit funky. Usually guys dont take that as harshly as a girl does.

If your old enough shower with him, thats also if your ready for it..  

Answer 11

Tell him honestly and if he is angry then he isn't worth hanging round. He does need to be told but just say it calmly and hold his hands as you say it! Good luck! : )

Answer 12

That is just unbelievable I shower twice a day and it is not a task more of a nice relaxing way to unwind.  I live in Turkey and the temperature is 35c+ if you did not take a shower you would stink.

I would tell him to get his act together or that is it plain and simple, this should not even come to asking this question basic hygeine when you with a woman is paramount.  I have taken three showers a day even when I did not need them  

Answer 13

tell him i like sleep with u  

Answer 14

I guess I just don't understand why you would start dating him in the first place.. If you've already talked to him about it, and he still doesn't, I'd say find someone knew. If he has something like crabs or any type of hygienic disorder, you don't want to expose yourself to that.

Answer 15

OMG that is disgusting.

You need to just be up-front and tell him. Sometimes embarrassment is the best solution.

but seriously, that is gross. How old is this guy? 8?

Answer 16

Just carry Old Spice with you everywhere and when he smells like a fish just sprtitz some alll over him.And trust me,there is no way a guy will shower....so you might as well just stop trying lolz :)

Answer 17

OMG i think you should just tell him str8 up. If you guys are really close just tell him you you fantasize about the two of you taking a shower together and just wash him...and when you guys get out keep complimenting him on how good he smells. Then he will put two and two together and realize that you give him more attn when he smells good.  

Answer 18

be all like

dude, you are grody

its mad sick

wash yo self chilld

then like dont talk to him until he does

:)

♥

- Rianna™

Answer 19

why he need shower? me havent tooken one in like 3months. im perfectly fine.  

Answer 20

The only possible explanation I can think of as to why he doesn't shower is because he's that freakin lazy.

Answer 21

Shower WITH  him! He'll definately take one if your in there with him!  

Answer 22

Just be honest with him, if he doesn't listen i'd get rid of him. Nasty!

Answer 23

Thats gross!!

smack him across the face with some soap

Answer 24

EEEEW that is sooo discusting there is no nice way in telling someone to take a shower either way you say it to me its still offensive if he is not listening to friends you should be hard on him and just tell him to SHOWER!

Answer 25

just tell him flat out, he has an odor problem and needs to address it if he wants to stay your boyfriend.  Some guys are stubborn and won't change without serious consequences being forced on them.

Answer 26

I am all for being earthy and stuff. Funk however is not allowed tell him it is affecting your relationship. Maybe he is depressed or something. If all else fails either dump him or hose him down

Answer 27

just tell him politely to go and clean up. buy him an Axe shower gel or something.

Answer 28

just let him know that he need to shower more. If might hurt him a little but if u guys really like each other u will be able to work it out...

Answer 29

Say Oh I Really Like You But.....TAKE A SHOWER OR WERE BREAKING UP

Answer 30

ew who doesn't shower these days?

tell him to go shower or you'll have s*x with his best friend

Answer 31

I had a man who was a bit lax about personal hygiene at one point.  If he doesn't take gentle hints you gotta come right out and say, in a jokey way, "god, when's the last time you showered / brushed your teeth / put those jeans in the wash?".  Tell him outright that you're really picky about cleanliness and maybe suggest taking a s**y shower with him.  If you've not slept together yet, hold it from him until he DOES shower.  In fact, do that even if you HAVE slept with him - if he really wants it he'll have no choice!