My boyfriend dumped me because of my mental state?

Question

i have mood swings, and often suicidal, im getting help, but he would joke about it to people, and he dumped me for another woman and is now completely blanking me.

i keep trying to see him, i don't know how to get over it. and i feel so hurt and low.

what do i do? i dnt think i can love anyone the same again, does everyone dispose of people because of their mental illness? does it make me below everyone else?

Answer 1

any kind of mental illness is a fragile situation.

people often fear what they are unable to understand.

and others are pure ignorant towards it.

your boyfriend left because he was unable to cope with the mood swings alot of men like a hassle free relationship.

whilst others can be patient and understanding.

i guess he was not the right person for you.

do not blame it on your mental illness as it is not your fault.

you will find some one who will stand by you give it time,

i wish you all the best in the future.

Answer 2

1) "what do i do?": Stop trying to see him, I know that it hurts but if you don't stop it now it's going to keep on hurting. Live life to the fullest! Life is wonderful and I promise you that you're going to meet a lot of great people in your life! So instead of worrying about him just go out, have fun and meet someone new!!

2) "does everyone dispose of people because of their mental illness?": No, but a lot of people can't handle being around someone with a mental illness. But that's NOT your fault! If someone is shallow and selfish then they will leave you and if they do then they never deserved your love! :)

3) "does it make me below everyone else?": No honey it doesn't never think about yourself as "below everyone else" because everyone is different and everyone is special!! :)

Answer 3

move on and give him and show him why he made a mistake that he will regret for the rest of his life

Answer 4

Life goes on but some get hurt. If we have hopes that can never come true we get hurt. The chemicals make you focus on him too much.

Answer 5

he is a jerk nothing more

collect yourself ,study ,and have a job and if he comes back to you *Please spit on his face for me*

find a hobby and get a pet ,money wont buy you happines but it would buy you people`s respect*UNFORTUNATLY MOST PEOPle ADORE SLIM RICH GIRLS*

Answer 6

He didn't dump you because of your mental illness, he dumped you for the other woman...

We all have mood swings, men included, If you had the mental illness  when your relationship started then its something he accepted. Don't take the blame. Hold your head up again and life will get better.

What do you do: You have to work out how to get through this split up day by day until it gets easier for you, then week by week.

You wont love anyone else the same as you loved him, each relationship feels different, each partner is different and each love has a different feeling to it, it doesn't mean you wont find love again. You just feel like it at the moment, but day by day and week by week you will get stronger, and then at some point you will begin to notice other men.

Dont rush it. Good Luck  

  

Answer 7

My boyfriend is the same way.

Here's what I think...Your boyfriend is obviously not mature enough to handle the situations that arise within a serious relationship. No, you are not below everyone else. Maybe he just felt like you wanted him to cure your problems. Guys often want to fix things, not just talk about them like girls do.

But, I do hope you are seeking professional help!