My boyfriend has 2 arrest warrants and he is homeless...?

Question

im 18, me and my boyfriend have been together for a year (friends for 4) but he is homeless and has 2 warrants out for his arrest. its so hard sometimes for me but he is my first love. what should i do to stay strong?

Answer 1

I would convince him to turn himself in and do what he needs to do to get his warrants cleared. From then, help him get a job and get himself established. He can get assistance through the government. The only way to help him if you really love him, is to help him to help himself. Going along with what he is doing is only encouraging his behavior to hide from his warrants. Sometimes its all about TOUGH LOVE.

Answer 2

if he turns himself in for his warrants he wont be homeless ,  

Answer 3

Well that depends on how you look at it.  I was actually homeless this year and had a couple warrants myself.  The thing is, if you dont have an address they wont let you out.  So, while he will have a place to sleep while he's inside they wont let him out until his courtdate.  Now that may be a good thing unless he has a job he has to get to.  It's up to him in how he wants to do it.  For God sake, do not try to make this decision for him.

Answer 4

Hard to say except it isn't your problem.  If he has warrants he needs to get them taken care of, even if it means arrest.....at least he'd have a place to sleep and eat.

Answer 5

Your parents must be so proud.

Answer 6

If you really love him and he loves you.. He will deal with his own issues and not let them effect you.  You both are too young to be having this stress on your lives and for him to bring you into his problems.  If he really wants to have a go with you in life, he will take care of these things on his own.  That will take time.. Meanwhile you can be going to school (college) waiting for him in the mean time and once he is done with his buisness, you can be successful and so could he with this mess behind you two.

Good luck.

Answer 7

he should turn himself in and do his time. he will at least be off the streets and getting 3 hots and a cot and you can visit him. and when he gets out he will be out from under the warrants