My boyfriend and i have been dating for a year now. I fell deeply in love with him and everything in our relationship was just so amazing. after i moved in with him he started to show his anger problem. hes never given me a reason that hes going to get physical but its just really frustrating.
For example, awhile ago i was an hour away and staying with my mother for the night (im seventeen hes ninteen. (please no comments about how we're underage its not worth it or that i am) and he was staying at his friends house and he exaderated and said that his friends were beating him up and he needed to be picked up right away, (this was at 3 am) so i drove all the way there just to find out they were joking with eachother. I got really mad and he said he understood but when i still was mad like 10 minutes later he got upset at ME for still being mad! and said i shouldnt be!
Its just hes a big baby. if anything doesnt go his way he throws a fit. and he will try to "talk them into it" wich is just a half hour of begging till they give in. like, ok so his car broke down, but he will always make me go get food for him by begging me and whining and if im stern with my answer and saying like im exhosted and its 10 pm i gotta get up tomorrow early he will just be like fine, whatever. get mad and ignore me and slam doors to get attention. this is NOT the guy i know. recently when i get directions wrong he will yell at me and ask if im retarted and it really hurt me so i yell back and he just didnt seem to get it. than i had a talk with him and he really seems to be getting better the past few days. but i just dont know if it just "goes away"
and he said the reason why he was so good before is because he went threw anger managment awhile ago and hes just forgeting the teqnicues. but we cant afford and its not on his insurence to go to anger management.
how can i help him? i LOVE this other side of him hes my dream guy but this other side is not tollerable. I already said if he continues like this i will leave him. but inside i dont think i could, and i think he may know too. do you think he will keep improving? is it just his testasterone and soemthing he will grow out of? how can i be more direct with my reaction to his baby and anger behavier? he cant seem to take a joke sometimes. how can i make him see how rediculous hes acting??
please only positive feed back, im not in a good state right now chewing me out isnt going to help i need some considerate edvice not saying "leave that dumbass loser or around those lines ISNT HELPING please be mature or dont leave a comment.. I appreciate good feedback:)
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